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NO CONTACT CLUB Resurrected - new thread
July 19, 2006
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Everybody what should i do, if anything about his rumor spreading? Because i almost sent him a message going something a little like this:
"Hey you little pin prick first off i'm not trying to hook up with your friends, second stop talking shit because i know a lot of shit about you and i'm not spreading it. Third and last i want nothing to do with you even by association forget i exist and that includes thinking or mentioning my fucking name. "
But i figured that was my angry fuel talking so i'm wondering if you girls have any advice on what to do?

July 19, 2006
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To lovinglife:
I want to ask you about the "you do not know when to shut up." My ex BF said that to me several times in emails. He was writing horrible things demanding his personal possessions plus extras. He would continually respond with that statement, and make a demands and tell me to leave him alone. He initiated No Contact and then broke it with a crazy email accusing me of stealing his gas cap, to again demand his things. I refused to pay to send them except COD or drop them on his door step and he refused to let me do that. Always with the statement things and saying ..."you do not know when to shut up." This was often after I would fight back against his hateful slanderous statements. Only threatening with the police made him stop. Any ideas?

July 20, 2006
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Thank you all for making me feel at home. I have been biz travelling with little time. I feel better just knowing you are here. I will write as soon as I can.

Someone had suggested that I write her and tell her never to contact me again. Well, I have a 1000 times; I just cant send it.
I am hopeless

Vic

July 20, 2006
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you are not hopeless.....

the simple thing to do would be to avoid contact - don't respond or answer her calls/contact.

sometimes the simple thing isn't the EASY thing.

writing to her to tell her not to contact you may open the door for MORE contact - as often, that shows you are still expending energy on the situation.

silence is golden and EVENTUALLY they go away, after realizing they are getting nowhere.

July 20, 2006
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say Vic- we are all over on the new No Contact thread....dont want you to think we all dropped of the face of AAC!

August 6, 2006
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she's back what doI do

August 6, 2006
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Vic~ The there is a new thread started for the NCC. Titled *NCC-revelations.*

August 6, 2006
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Vic -

Come to "No Contact Club - Revelations" thread and we will all be there for you.

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