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July 22, 2005
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It's up and down. I am about to have to go to work and I just spent 10 minutes crying in the shower. My only solace is that I will be able to log on here during work for the time being. This is where my support is. To everyone else, except my mother, I have become a burden.

July 22, 2005
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To Just Lost.........................
It's Upsidedown......Man, I really feel for you. You are going through break up Hell.

I burst out crying too and I have imaginary conversations with her ALL the time. Trying to go to sleep with my mind swirling with wonderful memories that drive nuts. Why? I ask. If you remember she left me with no, and I mean NO, warning.'Fell in love with another man after 24 great years together. aaaarrrrrrgggghhh.

It sounds to me like like your spitting into the wind. You are getting nowhere with her. She doesn't give a damn about you anymore.

That is just one of the things that drives us both crazy. We have to get through this period, Everyone on this site says it will get better. Hard to believe, when your sobbing. Be well.
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July 22, 2005
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you are right. It never seems that it will get better. I went to a singles dinner tonight. A lot of great divorced people but she still crossed my mind. Wondering what she is doing. Knowing who she is with.

But I just realized it tonight. Everyone said that she tried to work it out but she didn't. She made up her mind and went to three counseling sessions. None with me. The 'other man' she is with that tried to work it out with his wife at least went to counseling for TWO years before asking for a divorce. My wife tried three hours. That was it. What a bitch

July 23, 2005
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To JL................
You are lucky to have had any marital counceling at all. ( really)

Remember I, and none of our friends had aninkling of a warning, not a hint until a month ago she said "I'm having an affair, I have fallen in love, and I am Leaveing you!"
Today I just found out that after a few months of email & phone, my ex sweetheart went to visit the married usurper for the first time in mid October!
Then to delay telling me for months and months was deceitful. To sleep with both of us, I don’t know how many times, since last October.
9 f......g months! How could she?
Together for 24 years!

I can't believe it. So, together, in 2004 we all had Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years Eve, and all that time she had to be thinking of him.
Then add the 2005 Valentines day, my birthday, your birthday! All that time she is thinking “Well this is the last time I’ll be doing this with this group.”
I once called the greatest actress in the Valley.
I have to change that to greatest actress in the World.

That cruel, lying,B---ch...

I'm totaly heartsick today..........
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July 23, 2005
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Corections to last post
( really kidding)
an inkling
I once called her the greatest actress in the Valley. I have to change that to greatest actress in the World.
That cruel, lying,B---ch...

I'm totaly heartsick today.......... Upsidedown

July 23, 2005
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I know how you feel. She just told me two days ago that she was going to honor our marriage until the divorce is final by not going to his place. So where is she today? guess....

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