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New Year's bonfire - got something to burn?
December 31, 2005
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Its raining so I thought about building a fire. Then I thought how nice it would be if we could throw all the negative stuff we carry around and throw it into the fire, to be burned into ash and never seen again.

I'll throw in some kindling and get it started. Anyone have things they would like to leave behind in 2005?

I would like to leave behind the resentment I still have for my exbf. Burn, baby, burn.

December 31, 2005
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Oh hell yea! Great idea, sd!!!

One question, will my whole ex fit into your fireplace? You know the old saying, "I wouldn't spit on you if you were on fire!" lol

Well, obviously, I need to leave my animosity, disappointment, and resentment toward my ex behind in 2005. Off with the old, in with the new! I've been doing ALOT of throwing away the past 2 weeks, as I have been moving into a new office. And a new way of life! I do not want to drag anything destructive or negative into my new year. I plan to focus on the positive, work with what I've been given, and take care of myself.

My ex has been contacting me the past couple of weeks, and everytime I cringe. I realize that I have worked thru my feelings for him, while he was obviously just putting his on hold. I no longer see him the same way nor desire to be with him. It's become clear as a bell to me!

So I will be burning anything of his that I have still held on to "just in case". I'm over it!!! I'm free!!! I'm starting anew!!! Bring on the new year please...I await it with open arms!!!

Peace to you all!

Love, plz~

December 31, 2005
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MY X-WIFE....If I didn't have kids with her, then I would not want any contact with her whatsoever. When she left me for another computer internet man, I had the kids full time for 1 yr. After 1 year, we went 50-50. I pay for everything for the kids such as weekly health insurance, summertime child care, take them to the doctors, dentist etc..and gave her 300.00 a month(not a court decision) because i felt guilty for not paying more(that was my codependency)...Now she is taking me back to court for more money, so through therapy and meetings etc...I got my balls back to face her. She is a b#$%h and took my generous money I was paying her each month away from her. If she wants to do this by court, she is kicking herself in the ass right now...but she is too dysfunctional to realize it. So, lets burn the X...why not!! And I don't feel guilty anymore. Plus, I am throwing in all my toxic friends with her...Its going to burn for a while, stand back!!!

December 31, 2005
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OMG!!!

You Ready!!

My marriage license, my husbands stupid emails that he scrounged from my pc, all the hatred i have for my self, all the time i spent playing games to make this marriage work, all the infractions on my soul,
most of all, at midnight tonight, i will leave my most unkind things i have done for myself right there..
I will leave all negativity, and prosper with more love for myself..

oh and please, please ,please burn that stupid self hatred,and alwasy underlying self doubt for myself..

Thank you very much...
one heck of a fire if i say so...
ha..

December 31, 2005
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I got something to burn!

But I'm not throwing it into the fire . . .

December 31, 2005
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Wow hbdude!!

Im sorry, i will STAND BACK!!

Please dont be so angry, not tonight, you have alot going for you!!

At least your free!!!

Im sorry for you and your kids, i know all to well about those issues, i guess you might want to throw women in ther to..
but we are not all like that...
I promis...

HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}

love kasie

December 31, 2005
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Ummm. Hbdude- I didn't really mean we should actually throw people in there- but I guess if it will make you feel better...(plus, I like the mental image- oops, thats my evil twin talking- gotta control her)

Yeah, Plz and Kasie- thats more what I had in mind- throwing away bad memories, feelings, triggers, etc. Liberating, isn't it?

Philmore- thought of you earlier when I was suggesting we all hold up a glass and toast- I knew you'd be doing something else (hehe)

The fire is burning really well (even though its still raining).

December 31, 2005
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to be honest sd, if i could toss my husband and a few other people in ther i would, but i will suffice with just the thought!!!

December 31, 2005
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I know what you mean Kasie, I really do.

December 31, 2005
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I would very much like to dump this "obligation" thing in here--I don't have to send cards to someone that hurt me every holiday, I don't have to make him feel secure in his position as a father in any way beyond making my child available to him. I don't have to be thoughtful or kind or warm, I simply have to tollerate him and allow him to visit. That's it. I throw in all of the chores I choose to do myself and then whine about being underapriciated for or abused with--I know he's going to do this, and I'm DONE! I am not taking on anyones responsabilities but my own this year, and good ridance!!!

Thanks for that, sd.

December 31, 2005
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I don't want to burn something, but I want to set free my projects and throw them into the bonfire so that whatever comes to me is accepted and welcomed from my HP and I have no objection whatsoever.

Thanks SD!

Flower, how u doing? Long time no see, I miss you sweetie! Give me an update about you. Maybe we can start a new thread.

December 31, 2005
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Wow,EF, the fire really surged with that one. Yahoo. Feel your shoulders rise after relieving those burdens? Happy New Year, EF.

December 31, 2005
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So, Ras, you're burning some walls and barriers? Let them fall. Good going. Happy New Year, Ras!

December 31, 2005
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hey EF push him in with mine!!!

I'll help!!

sorry sd, just had to!!

im in that kind of mood, but you started this thread, you should have known,
cant wait to see what overcome will throw in!!

December 31, 2005
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No SD I did not say that. What I meant is set my projects free from my own grip and throw them into the fire.

Happy New Year to you, sweetie!!!XOXOXO

December 31, 2005
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So, Ras, you are more like throwing your things to the wind for god to do with as he will? Or throwing the control you don't have in?

i actually have to get ready for a New Years Party here, but will be back to touch base.

Yes, SD it was a lot of luggage, I'm sure it really combusted!!! I feel worlds better with that though!!!

December 31, 2005
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Ras- guess I don't understand. What do you mean by projects?

December 31, 2005
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No, look I have a number of projects praying about Ok. I am releasing them from my grip in to the grip of HP by throwing them into the bon fire ~ so that I stop WORRYING about them.

So, here I am releasing my anxiety about these projects!

If you do

December 31, 2005
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Sorry, hit button so quickly.

(((SD & FLOWER)))

If you still do not understand. Please tell me.

XOXOXO

December 31, 2005
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And now I'm making you worry about them by having to explain them. Wanna throw me into the fire?

You mean projects of working on yourself? Guess I'm dense. Go ahead and knock me on the head.

December 31, 2005
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sd, if you're going in, take my ex with you!? Or better still, send him on your behalf, we love you too much to see you go!!!

December 31, 2005
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Projects mean dreams, visions, aspirations, something you hope for and pray about and wait even tho you're worried, you keep telling yourself when will this happen.

So, I am releasing these Dreams from my worries and throwing them into the bon fire so that I wait for God's will rather than worry.

How about that, is it clear no honey?

December 31, 2005
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(((SD and the rest))) I started a thread entitled "Coffee, chocolate cake and celebration of New Year's Eve." Please Join me all there.

See you there sooooooooooon!

December 31, 2005
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Wow, EF. That was close. I almost fell in- but the good news is....I threw in your ex! And mine too! (Music) "Ex's roasting on an open fire..."

December 31, 2005
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yes i d love to burn my self pity my self struggles and my self loathing and make a new start for myself id also like to leave behind those who use me and walk all over me like a door mat and take advantage of me and my hubby and lack of self trust and self love

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