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July 31, 2009
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darkeyes
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hi. alot going on in my life that nearly drove me crazy. couldnt understand what was happening to me.know now im codependant and knowing that alone has saved my sanity..i always blamed myself but am starting to realize i have choices and dont have to let anyone abuse me no more..al my life i couldnt feel or didnt know what emotions were.so just starting a whole new journey so a little scared..so need friends to help me..

July 31, 2009
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Darkeyes,

I am new here as well. I have received such wonderful advise and support already. It is amazing how chatting with someone else who has been in the same spot as you can make you feel so good. I feel like I am not alone, and people can understand where I am coming from.

Your comment about not feeling and didn't know emotions is familiar to me. I have been told that I am emotionless and cold hearted, but I believe it is more that I don't know what I am feeling. Is this how you feel?

No need to be scared. This will be a great improvement in your life. I am excited about my new journey and you should be to.

AGV

August 1, 2009
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hi AGV.no one who is codependant is emotionaless or coldhearted.your right in what you believe.i always let people do and say anything to me cos i didnt want to hurt them but it was always ok for them and somewhere deep in my soul iknew it was wrong.i hit rockbottom a few weeks ago cos someone i loved could never love me back said he didnt want to know me.didnt even want me as a friend broke me as a human being and was the final straw nearly ended my life.i got through that night and swore no one will ever have that power over me again. im struggling to stay positive buti now just sit with every emotion and feel it and wait for it to pass.sometimes i think im insane.. darkeyes

August 4, 2009
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I am new to this site and I am new to discovering that I am co-dependant! I always thought it was my job to fix whoever had problems. That was my job til I realized it didn't work and I can't fix people, especially the one who know you want to fix them {manipulators}. This is all so life changing for me. And having to learn to put up boudaries for self-protection....wow it just shocks me.

August 4, 2009
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Hi sheisco. yes a major shock but relief to no we r not alone..it is life changing and a new beginning. readin your thread i never looked at the (manipulators), i have many. boundaries i never had, and let whoever wanted to come into my space in, didnt know any better, learnin day by day. keep posting, darkeyes.

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