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February 7, 2005
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Cey
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I am new member, and I wanted to get some ideas from others about what to do. I have a pattern of making my relationships fail, and purposefully choosing the guys that don't want a relationship( bad boys). I haven't called him, but I want to. Please post any helpful hints.

February 7, 2005
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I think you already know the answer to your question, you pick men that don't want a serious relationship so if you already know this you go into it the same way..Angel1

February 7, 2005
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Stay away from men who don't want to have a relationship and you will make room for men who do. Make a committment to yourself.

February 7, 2005
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Like Kathygy said... MAKe a commitment ot yourself, FIRST, and maybe that will involve some ALONE time, but IF you focus on yourself, andwhat you truly want... there will be NO room for "bad boys." If you can stand strong on your own, you will attract those who will stand strong wth you, andthe more you trust yourself, the less "bad boys" will be appealing to you... you'll start to see right thru them, and not even want to talk to a lot of them anymore... try surrounding yourself with more positive types of guys... 🙂

February 7, 2005
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ooooh how some of us, like myself, love the bad boys (well i used to!)

I agree, start loving yourself more, and knowing your self worth, and knowing how important you are, and what a good person you are, if you feel it on the inside, it will show on the outside. Never settle.

Keep coming back and posting too!!

February 7, 2005
8:28 pm
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How's that song go? Bad bad bad bad boys you make me feel so good. : - ) LOL.. Man I think 90% of us have to go through the bad boys to grow. But honestly i think we tend to go for the bad boys to distract us from ourselves. If were worried about them and focused on what there doing and the excitement that they bring we can stop focusing on ourselves. I mean you can spot em a mile away. They dress good, they always know what to say ect ect.. you don't attract them, they attract you. Bottom line. What do they do for you? How do they help you improve your life? What are you learning from them thats positive? Just be aware of your behavior and patterns so you can change them and find yourself a good boy. Easier said then done but it sounds good right? LOL Good luck!!

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