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new long distance relationship...
October 22, 2008
3:47 pm
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so my boyfriend resently got a new job and is going to have to move away. we have been together on and off for like 2 and a half years now and i have never been aways from him... but he is leaving on sunday to his new job.

he is going to work 4 tens so he can most likely come home on the weekends. but i am very scared for him to be gone so much... i am going to miss him so much.

i have been trying so hard to support him with this job because he needs the money but deep down inside i dont want him to go. i feel that this move will make us or break us and i really hope it will work out... any advise???

October 23, 2008
5:31 am
chelonia mydas
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I'm sorry you are going through this.

I feel for you and understand your anxiety about the future of this relationship. Distance sometimes can help people see everything they love about a person and might bring them closer together. But it also might help them realize that the relationship isn't a good fit. Either way it will help you find out if this is a lifelong relationship or help you move on to find someone who is. But give it time and see how things work out. Maybe it will be a positive change for both of you, where he gets a good job and you discover that this relationship is stronger than you realized.

If it works out, then it was meant to be. If it doesn't then that just means that there is something better for you.

Sending you comfort in this time of change. Chelonia

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