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Neshie's Night- Wed
September 8, 2005
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NOW FOLKS. NOW. Scroll up if you want to help me.

September 8, 2005
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Nesh, I agree with your brother, and I quite often am. I am always doing goofy stuff and I can amuse myself for hours. I have been on my own since I was 17 and as I told you before took care of my nephews. I put my self thru college while working full time and now have a great job with a fortune 500 company and I am financially stable and independent---and even though I have been acting as an adult, I have never felt like one (although used to stomp my feet and tell people that I was one). Maybe it is not growing up that I am feeling but another level of maturity. anyway . . .

September 8, 2005
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okay nesh, I am completely relationship tone deaf, but this is what I suggest----if you have known him for 3 yrs and you just kissed new years and you want to get the ball rolling (this probably a dumb idea, but . . .) just march over to his house and initiate physical contact. It may take the pressure off of him and at the very least you wont feel like you are just waiting

September 8, 2005
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cpt=-

that wont work, he has trust and boundary issues. It is getting better, because I have been playing it cool. He has been pursuing me.

I cannot push, but I WANT IT to move forward NOW, not sex, just feel secure like we are a couple. I want it NOW.

September 8, 2005
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I guess I cannot control it.

September 8, 2005
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well that is not something you can push, very successfully

September 8, 2005
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Nesh: umm Good things come to those who wait? I want you to have him now too, but he is obviously not ready. Patience is a virtue. A wise woman with patience will receive her reward. I think I'm sinkin here.

CPT: I have always been the "overly responsible" one. But not to the extent of letting go of my childish side. Don't let go of the fun stuff. Squirt gun fights in the house - my favorite. But they have to clean any messes. Baking cookies and then putting a flour handprint on each face. The 23 yr old gets a little upset but has fun doin it to otheres. That was what the ? was for. Don't forgt to have fun in your adulthoodness.

September 8, 2005
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I wont. I totally love squirt guns too! You sound like a wonderful parent.

September 8, 2005
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okay gfs. Thanks, I am feel i better go to bed. You helped. Thanks. I will try to be patient. That seems to ne what is best for him, us, and keeps my self respect at the same time. It is not like I am out looking for someone else anyway. He has a lot of good qualities and is a safe friend since my stalker. Plus, I adore him.

September 8, 2005
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Nesh, sweet dreams

September 8, 2005
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Don't know about wonderful. We have our issues. But, pray for each child every night by name, don't let them know they can get a reaction from you, discipline without waivering (much), always be as open and honest as possible, admit when you are wrong, have fun. My kids think I'm nuts, but they do love mama. That I have no doubt about.
Hubby has no sense of humor, but I can run thru the house and hide just as well as they can. lol

Nesh: Let time take it's course. I know that's not what you want to hear, but if you rush in you will no doubt screw things up. We humans always do when we take matters into our own hands.

September 8, 2005
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I should probably turn in too. I lazed away the day today, so I have lots of things to do when I get up before I go back to work on friday

September 8, 2005
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goodnight ladies,

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