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September 24, 2010

I told off that jerk at work again...he is really pushing my buttons. I told him to treat my students and me with respect or take a hike. I told him he is unprofessional and I am not taking it, and if he pulls this one more time I am taking it up with the proper person over his head. I told him he should know that even though he doesnt treat me with respect, I respect myself!
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September 24, 2010

except, we don't know he is gay. he just has intimacy problems. I woke him up to call him to complain about our colleague who is harrassing me, because he brought my gay bf into the argument, who he does not know I am seeing, and i did not know my gay bf was sleeping, and he says he was dreaming about some dark skinned woman he picked up on the street! This is a man who NEVER sleeps around. Then, when he woke up, he couldn't believe he said that! I think he was embarrassed. HA! I said, "you are coming out of your shell!"
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September 24, 2010

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September 27, 2010

lol. Naw. The girl in the dream was a ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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September 24, 2010

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September 27, 2010

Nesh:
LOL... I am so sorry. I totally blinked out in my chair last night. I was so tired. Woke up at 6am. Just wanted to let you know I was not calling the woman a bad name. Have no clue what I was gonna say now.
If you feel that strongly, then you hang in there; but please, do watch out for the red flags. You heal and he needs to do some healing too.
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September 24, 2010

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September 24, 2010

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11:46 pm

September 27, 2010

Nesh,
I'm glad you spoke directly to the person with whom you're having an issue. I Looooaathe how people at the workplace will rag to anothrs boss before dealing with that other person directly first. Somoen did that to me a while back..a "friend" too. He went to my boss's boss to bitch about me.
I figured it out and spoke to him directly about it. My therpaist called his approach one of parent-child rather than adult-adult.
Unfortunately, my boss's boss and my boss i guess prefer snitching behavior at the work place because they never said to my 'friend" have you spoken to 'glittered' yet?
Fortunately, and this was miraculous...moment after discovering all this..my phone rings with another job offer for much more $. So, I jumped ship.
so, again, good for you for using the adult-adult conflict resolution appraoch. I hardly know you and you've earned my respect. although I must admit, the gay boyfriend thing I don't like - Unless I'm misunderstanding you. Is he a gay friend? or is he your boyfriend who you are labeling as gay?
But i suppose that if it helps you to come here and rant a little that could be agood thing too.
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September 27, 2010

11:58 pm

September 24, 2010

thanks glittered. He actually sent me an email with an official apology. He also sent me a thank you with a cc to my dept chair and Dean (I am a prof). So, it worked! Unfortunately, i didn't feel like I was talking to an adult, much less a professor. I felt like I was talking to a preschooler. Yes, I am familiar with that psychological theory, you speak of..thanks for the refresher! It is a good one.
As for the "gay" bf, well, it is a guy with intimacy issues I speak of often on here. I need help about him. One of the ongoing theories has been that he may be gay, but that is not the main theory. He is not meeting some of my needs, but we are very close. The relationship is going very slowly. I hang on, because I feel safe with him, and that is critical, since my safety was severely threatened this year. Anyway, thanks for your response.
I really wish someone would read my post about "Sharing Dreams: A thought by Nesh." I am really pondering this issue.
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