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Nesh and Night Owls
September 2, 2005
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Neshema
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Anyone here?

September 2, 2005
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yep. was thinkin everyone was in bed and couldn't hang w/ us tough chickies.

September 2, 2005
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I told off that jerk at work again...he is really pushing my buttons. I told him to treat my students and me with respect or take a hike. I told him he is unprofessional and I am not taking it, and if he pulls this one more time I am taking it up with the proper person over his head. I told him he should know that even though he doesnt treat me with respect, I respect myself!

September 2, 2005
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Good for you!!! You mention students.. you are a teacher?

September 2, 2005
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professor with tenure! internationally known, actually...can u believe that? all 100 lbs of me....with nail polish...and I dont take shit.

September 2, 2005
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You go girl. Great to see you in a good mood.

September 2, 2005
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what? i had 4 hrs of sleep last nite. My gay bf had to give me 2 wake up calls at 6 AM...finally got home at 11 PM, was in meetings all day, and arguing with that other jerk all day. Then, had a great time talkig on the phone with my gay bf. I am dizzy.

September 2, 2005
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When did we decide the bf was gay?
Yep, jumpin all over the place .

September 2, 2005
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except, we don't know he is gay. he just has intimacy problems. I woke him up to call him to complain about our colleague who is harrassing me, because he brought my gay bf into the argument, who he does not know I am seeing, and i did not know my gay bf was sleeping, and he says he was dreaming about some dark skinned woman he picked up on the street! This is a man who NEVER sleeps around. Then, when he woke up, he couldn't believe he said that! I think he was embarrassed. HA! I said, "you are coming out of your shell!"

September 2, 2005
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So, he says to me, " you are too cute! I am really proud of you for standing up to him. You were really strong." I know he is cheering me on for getting over the stalker.

September 2, 2005
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You are to cute. Think he was serious?

September 2, 2005
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yeah. he loves to tell me that.

September 2, 2005
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Except I wanna know who the darked skinned woman was in his dream, he didnt know her name, age, or anything about her...HMMMM? I am fair, blue-eyed, blonde.

September 2, 2005
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lol. Naw. The girl in the dream was a ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

September 2, 2005
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was a what??????????

September 2, 2005
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I am telling you mama, I must marry this man.

September 2, 2005
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Nesh:

LOL... I am so sorry. I totally blinked out in my chair last night. I was so tired. Woke up at 6am. Just wanted to let you know I was not calling the woman a bad name. Have no clue what I was gonna say now.

If you feel that strongly, then you hang in there; but please, do watch out for the red flags. You heal and he needs to do some healing too.

September 2, 2005
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mama, if he was dreaming about her, feel free to call her a bad name! haha! Please go read my post, darn, I forgot what it is called, something about a though by nesh. I had this really profound idea (in my humble opinion) and no one even read it. I want to discuss it and sort it out.

September 2, 2005
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mama, please read my last message, the post to which I was referring is "Sharing Dreams: A thought by Nesh"

September 2, 2005
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where is everyone?

September 2, 2005
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Nesh,

I'm glad you spoke directly to the person with whom you're having an issue. I Looooaathe how people at the workplace will rag to anothrs boss before dealing with that other person directly first. Somoen did that to me a while back..a "friend" too. He went to my boss's boss to bitch about me.

I figured it out and spoke to him directly about it. My therpaist called his approach one of parent-child rather than adult-adult.

Unfortunately, my boss's boss and my boss i guess prefer snitching behavior at the work place because they never said to my 'friend" have you spoken to 'glittered' yet?

Fortunately, and this was miraculous...moment after discovering all this..my phone rings with another job offer for much more $. So, I jumped ship.

so, again, good for you for using the adult-adult conflict resolution appraoch. I hardly know you and you've earned my respect. although I must admit, the gay boyfriend thing I don't like - Unless I'm misunderstanding you. Is he a gay friend? or is he your boyfriend who you are labeling as gay?

But i suppose that if it helps you to come here and rant a little that could be agood thing too.

September 2, 2005
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Funny..Idistictly remebering using 'enter' to make paragraphs, but the text of my post lacks them. plus it scrolls way right.

I don't like that.

September 2, 2005
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thanks glittered. He actually sent me an email with an official apology. He also sent me a thank you with a cc to my dept chair and Dean (I am a prof). So, it worked! Unfortunately, i didn't feel like I was talking to an adult, much less a professor. I felt like I was talking to a preschooler. Yes, I am familiar with that psychological theory, you speak of..thanks for the refresher! It is a good one.

As for the "gay" bf, well, it is a guy with intimacy issues I speak of often on here. I need help about him. One of the ongoing theories has been that he may be gay, but that is not the main theory. He is not meeting some of my needs, but we are very close. The relationship is going very slowly. I hang on, because I feel safe with him, and that is critical, since my safety was severely threatened this year. Anyway, thanks for your response.

I really wish someone would read my post about "Sharing Dreams: A thought by Nesh." I am really pondering this issue.

September 3, 2005
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Good evening Nesh & Glittered.

Looks like ya'll are doin good.

September 3, 2005
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ru u folks still around

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