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Needed to Share My Growth As A Person....Luv2
March 1, 2006
7:56 pm
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Well, my girlfriend and her daughter came over for our Tuesday Family Dinner. We have been coming together for dinner every Tuesday for the past month. My girlfriend and I cook dinner together then we all sit around the table to eat(well, she does most the cooking, I stand in her way 🙂 )Afterwards, the kids play and me and her watch t.v. and talk. Well, everything was going well up til we had a miss understanding. Well, we didn't get angry with one another and instead of biting each others heads off we disqust what I said and what she had said and we worked it out. We reach an understanding where both of us were coming from and we moved on.

I tell you I never thought communication could go so smoothly. In past relationships, if I stated how I felt they would get angry with me and go off the wall. We have been together for a Month now and things are going along all so well. I am in love with her and I want the world to know. We have so much in common and being with her is all I think about and want. It is refreshing to actually want to be around someone. We get together on Tuesdays for dinner then we spend most of the weekend together. Depending if it is my son's mothers weekend we spend the weekends as a family then the other weekends we spend it alone. It is a great schedule. The other days of the week we see each other for about 15 minutes when we pick our kids up at the daycare. Other then that we might talk for 10 to 15 minutes during the day.

I think the other thing that impresses me is that she started to go to church with me and enjoys it just as much as I do. We went last weekend with both our kids and they had a great time. Well, I just wanted to share my new found faith that things can happen for us all. Just when you think your chips are down things can change before your eyes.

Much Luv,
Luv2

March 2, 2006
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Wow, how delightful! I'm so glad for you, Luv. You always sound like such a thoroughly nice, genuine person. It's fantastic to hear how well your arrangements are going, and how happy you are with your new (& hopefully permanent) Love! Congratulations!!!

I've been absorbing so much misery & upset from this site over the past year & a half, that I think that although I have learned enormous amounts about human relationships & how people work, & made some good cyber-friends, sharing both commiseration & encouragement ... overall, perhaps my depression has become more entrenched. (A touch of the old, childish, "everyone else is doing it" syndrome! Herd instinct maybe.)

So reading your lovely, inspiring post which is simply radiant with joy has done me the world of good!

This seems a good note on which to bow out of here, & stop reading aspects of my own problems over & over again from many different perspectives.

Sure, they have taught me vast, enormous HEAPS of different viewpoints & ways of coping / healing /improving life. I'm truly very, very grateful. But my own depression is weighing me down and keeps getting re-confirmed by everyone else's.

It's my fault, I know, for being too empathetic & letting too much 'in'. I get too easily & deeply affected. So now I need a holiday from woe.

Luv, I'm sending you the very best 'vibes' & warmest good wishes as you settle into your new life together. You are a shining example of learning new adaptability, understanding & wisdom. THANKS for the positive inspiration!

Wishing you much love, light & laughter. Blessings & love to all - gazelle.

March 2, 2006
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(((way to go Luv)))) glad all is working out with your g'friend and her child and yours....!!!! love, camer

March 2, 2006
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((((Luv)))))

March 2, 2006
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Luv,

I'm thrilled that things are going so well in so many areas of you life. It gives me hope!!!

Your joy is contagious my friend!

I get good, good, good...good vibrations!

March 3, 2006
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Hey everyone,

Thank you for the postive support. I am glad to see that the postives can help. There is hope for us all. I like to share the good as the bad. I have had my share of crap over the past 1 1/2 so I knew it was time to start my moving on. And I guess I got lucky and it found me. I pray each and everyone of you find your inner peace and love that is out there for you.

Much Luv

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