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need to know how to help my friend
February 23, 2004
1:04 am
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hi i am new here and i have a friend who is in need of help i belive she is in a co dependent relationship to me the signs are all there. she has a boy in her life not a man. the signs that i am seeing are these she is constantly deppressed she has such incredible mood swings for a week she is happy and for three she is upset or sad. i just recently found out that she has a drinking prpblem as well {i suspected it for a while but she finally admitted it} her boyfriend if you can call him that is a drunk and unfortunatly the father of one of her kids he is a manipulator and i think is controlling her with fear. she has thrown him out and taken him back at least five times that i know of. the last time she stayed away from him and was seeing a wonderfull guy a friend of my boyfriend and she was so happy with him she was radiating happiness and he fell in love with her and her kids and after about three months she started getting deppressed again and her new guy was trying desperatly to figure out what was wrong and then she announced to all of our horror that she was taking the drunk back saying that she was going to fix him most of her friends have given up on her i am basically the only one left the guy that she was seeing is still heartbroken my boyfriend told me he was going to ask her to marry him. she said she wants to fix him and after talking to her she told me he said that she is the only one who can fix him and i can't belive she is falling for this she has told me before in the past that she was co dependent i have to get her some help before her and her kids get hurt anymore her kids are really screwed up already you can see that when you try and talk to them. guys i really need help with this i need to get her some help she is not the reading type i tried that and it did not work i need to know what else i can do to get her some help.

February 23, 2004
3:36 am
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you know sometimes you can't be too soft.. the more you concern about her the more she feels miserable.. you mention the choices of her life.. the normal life she might want to live.. just straight forward and you can tell her about the article reason, season en lifetime... i believe she really appreciate that you always stay by her side, but please don't spoil her

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