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need someone...rough day with my mom...
August 17, 2007
1:37 am
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justmakinit9
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my mom came to visit me for a day and a half and for some reason i have reverted back to not wanting to see her or be with her or talk to her. it freaks me out being one on one with her, i never know what to say or what to do and i always feel like i am subordinate to her and that i have to do everything her way...

i knew it was going to be tough when she came to visit but i didnt know it would be this bad...i have forced myself to be so numb that i cant even cry right now because im just so tired of keeping everything inside.....and i dont have anyone to talk to...

we got into a fight right before she left, she said stuff i said stuff then i gave in and went to breakfast with her...i guess it was just to get her to stop crying...but i feel like i lost...and that shes won..again...

any suggestions or advice? im really upset about it i am just having trouble getting all my thoughts together to figure things out because i dont have anyone to talk to...

August 17, 2007
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what is your relationship like, are you always fighting over something?

do you feel upset that you fought or that she won? you wrote "...but i feel like i lost...and that shes won..again... "

in every relatiosnhip there has to be times when you are fighting, but when you look at it from a "win win " situation it helps, no matter what the quarel is about you and your mum are on the same side and you should quarel positively to find a solution not to win or loose

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