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May 15, 2002
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Princess K8
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My pain is really sucking right now.....my parets pulling me in different directions....friends not caring....i have lost everything i had....i cant go on like this...can i go on at all?

May 15, 2002
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Do this things and I PROMISE you will feel better.......Go to each parent and talk. Go to each friend and talk. TALK. Don't run from life. I started running and hiding when I was your age and it's taking it's toll on me now. Go to the ones you have problems with and TALK. Don't hide. Don't bury yourself in depression. I bet you find you are truly not totally alone, and even if it doesn't come out as you expected, you will better than you do now. When you have the talk remember to be strong and honest and be ready to hear possibly things you don't want to hear from everyone. It's all life. People are always going to be in it, and you will forever get your feelings hurt once in awhile. Sometimes it will be you hurting someone, sometimes you will be the one hurt. But you can't run from it and stop living. You face problems head on and right when they come up. It takes so much less time to "handle a problem" than to run from it. Trust me, I know. Do this. Please do it. Start handling life in this way and you will always remember this thread I'm writing here. It will prove to be right 100 percent of the time. Head on, and right when they come up. Never fails.

May 15, 2002
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You say your parents are pulling you , and your friends don't care ? What is going on, mom and dad divorcing ?????? Tug a war with you as the object ? This is a safe place, you can vent here, there are lots of adults and younger people that post here. Type it all out, say what is on your mind. We might not have all the answers, but trust in that you will be heard.

May 16, 2002
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My parents are divorsing and my father wants to take all our money.... last night i lost both my best friends and i cant find any answers.....i want to talk, but no one else will. School sucks so much and i wanna get out. i am doing so badly becasse i cant concentrait in classes and im tired and stressed 24/7. I say i will talk time for myself but it dosent ever seem to happen.

May 16, 2002
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I just need someone to talk to....anyone coz i feel empty like there is no one that wants to talk to me. 🙁

May 16, 2002
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Good morning Princess K8.
I have a daughter named Kate as well. She is a good bit older than you are, but she was once your age. She was passed around a lot, but was fortunate in ways so many children aren't as she was settled w/ people who loved and cared for her and eased her pain at having a really silly and crazed Mom and Dad.

Outside of the divorce which you know is impending. Are you sure you've lost you're best friends. Have they just not responded to your fear and aloneness the way you thought they should or have they told you to exit their lives?

May 16, 2002
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Everything is getting really hard. I hate going to school because teachers are only interested in yelling at me. I am so far behind. I have to best friend’s u c, Angela and Mark. Last night Mark and I decided it was easier that we were just not friends so I am truly shattered about that. A month ago Angela’s mum died. I knew her well. It was really hard and I really struggled going through it. Now Angela is grieving and I have been trying to support her. She seems to blame everything on her mum. Sorry I am just upset today is all I ever seem to here. Does it make me selfish?

May 16, 2002
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I have some people around me that are happy to support me but I have never needed them until now. I guess its like…well I feel like I am just calling on them when I need them yet I have never had time for them before now. Everything is making me feel like less of a person and its so hard to know what to say and what to do. I am really suffering at school and I want Drama music and dance to guide me through my career. I have always had a lot of confidence to get up and sing and dance and perform but I am feeling like its just not worth it anymore because every time I get hurt by something I feel a piece of my confidence goes with the heart that has been broken off.

May 20, 2002
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Hi K8.I'm glad you've got some people to support you.Obviously they don't think of you as less of a person.You sound very concerned that you haven't contacted them in a while,that says good things about you.I love to sing and for a long time I hid my singing talent fearful of what people would think of me.Well life is too short for me to hide anymore .I feel good when I perform its my soulfood and I learn something every time I do it.I needed to build up confidence in myself and my worth. sometimes thats scarey and I get hurt but I'm using the hurt to give my performance feeling.I get inspired by the stories of performers who fought hard to 'make it'There are many many stories like this.Go well K8.!

May 20, 2002
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My parents divorced after 20 years of marriage. I was 15. I decided to keep living my life and let them work on theirs. I got involved in stuff at school and at church so I wouldn't have to go home to an empty house.

Divorce is tough. It forces you to grow up and I promise it's not your fault. Don't let your parents make you choose sides.

You do what's best for you. Your parents want to help you, but sometimes they have no clue what you are feeling. You must talk with both of them. You don't have to blame either of them. You can still love them. You can hate them. But they are your parents. Accept that you will have deep hurt and lots of emotions to go through. IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT!!!

As for your friends, they may not know what you need from them. Be sure to tell your friends that it's okay for you to talk about your parents, but you still love them. If that's how you feel. It was always okay for me to "hate" my parents, but I never wanted anyone else to say anything bad about either of them. Friends often mean well, but say the wrong things. My best friend just listened when I vented. She was in a similar situation. So we toughed it out together. That helped too.

I kept my grades decent and stayed out of trouble. You've got enough to deal with right now. Please don't look for an escape in drugs or alcohol. It will just complicate your life further.

Good luck and lots of hugs to you.

July 14, 2002
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Good. More frequency in posts again.

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