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January 15, 2002
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zetagirl
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My husband and I have been together for 14 years and married 4 years. We are sort of in a rut. The sex is still fabulous, I just want to spice things up a little. I need an inexpensive way to do this. PLEASE HELP!!!

January 15, 2002
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Have an outrageously wild intramarital affair! Get email addresses that only you two share to write only to each other....

I once spiced up my marriage by letting my husband come home to a dark and empty house. Our teenager was farmed out to an overnight at a friend's house...and I left him a French email...with clues as to my whereabouts...the clues were based on our past together...so he knew it was me and he found me and on time...at one of our favorite restaurants from years ago...and we had a great time...I got to see him in the evening light...and get that old flame back....

January 15, 2002
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THANK YOU, I LIKE THAT IDEA, HE IS OUT OF TOWN AND WILL BE BACK ON SATURDAY, BY THEN I WILL HAVE TAKEN THE KIDS TO MY SISTER'S FOR THE WEEKEND.

January 15, 2002
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Here is another idea: Stock the house up with enough of whatever you need to not leave the house for any reason...save a fire...and turn the phones off...cover/close the windows, if you have neighbors...don't answer the door...and spend the entire weekend naked...and play "True Confessions." This is a game where you take turns telling each other secrets about yourselves...you have to sit side by side and look into each other's eyes, being about one foot apart. A cozy couch will do for this one. The true confessions can be anything you have never shared with each other before...no matter how silly you might think it is. Even stuff you recall from childhood. Anything. My husband fell absolutely madly in love with me again after a weekend of this. 🙂

January 15, 2002
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Another idea: push his safety buttons. You have known him for 14 years, you know what these are...!

My husband is a chemist and order and routine are his obsession. I picked him up from work once and just took him to New Orleans...straight from work. He freaked out. No tooth paste...no change of clothes...no nothing. Just me and a tank of gas. He coped. He bought tooth paste. He discovered that he could survive with the same clothes on for a couple of days....and not stink too badly. I showed him my old childhood haunts...where the old hippie commune was...and Jackson Square...where I used to enjoy the street musicians...he saw the hookers and the pimps and the drunks and druggies and the folks screaming at 4am as they went into DT's....and the difference between classically trained musicians and street musicians...and how their own music had equal value and charm in its own way. We listened to three conversations at the same time in three different languages...with jazz playing in the background...this was a sort of art form in and of itself....

I pushed his buttons and he expanded his consciousness...I pissed him off and delighted him at the same time.

January 15, 2002
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COOL, I LIKE THAT ONE TOO, I THINK THAT I AM GOING TO START A LIST, HE DRIVE TRUCKS FOR A LIVING, SO WHENEVER HE COMES IN I WILL HAVE A NEW ADVENTURE. THANKS GUYS

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