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need help out
April 2, 2007
8:39 pm
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I need help my boy friend moved in four years ago may. In the past four years he did 30 days for DWI his teenage daughter had a little girl two years ago He raised his daughter himself His granddaughter whom I love as my own has been in our care since birth she lives with us for 5 days out of seven . He has not been able to keep a job in over a year He has been fired from three jobs. He pays nothing in rent and will ask me to help with car and insurance for his daughter. I am at end of my rope money and nerves. I work with the mental disable and that is draining. I come home and he expects me to fix his problems. When I do he gets mad when I don't the problems go undone till they are out of control. I worry that the real victim in all this is a beautiful two year old. I can not do this I do not want to be in this world I want to be happy I do not want to be the problem solver. How can I get out but not leave this little girl whom I love in a place that can be so bad. Mom is up on her second shoplifting over 5000 in less than a year and she does a lot of drink and pot.

April 4, 2007
12:57 pm
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Well first of all, by reading this, this is not your problem but he has made it to be because he is acting like a child himself.

That is why I would like to say to womens like you that these mens are not good for you. They will prey on a strong woman and use her up. I hate that it has taken you four years to realize that the only thing that he is doing is using you.

I understand that you may have feeling for this little girl but she is not your problem. He is just living there for free and you are letting him do that.

In order for you to find and have peace. He is going to have to go and take care of his own problems. Taking care of a grown man I guess is draining, but I wouldn't let him suck me dry.
You do have choices in this situation, just hope that you make the right one.

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