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February 27, 2001
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cesar
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My story is not anyworst or in many ways any different then some of the stories I have read here. Even though I feel the need to talk about it. I recently broke up with my girl friend who I had been living with me for over a year. No novelty here is something that happens all the time, and has happend to me before. The only difference is that she is the only women I have ever Love. Not to go into to many details the relation ended because of lies, deception, and betrayel on her part. After strugling for months with this isues to no aveil we finaly broke apart, February 14 to be exact. I know that for many reasons not the lease which is my self respect this was the right decision. But this is where my dilema begins, why does it feel like I'm dying inside. I have been unable to sleep, or eat properly in two weeks, and I can not stop thinking about her. The only thing that stops me from going to look for her is that she never demonstrated a sincere decire to change her ways. I know what you are thinking, time heals all wounds, but does it realy apply when you Loved someone so much and when you placed all your hopes on that someone?

February 27, 2001
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You have a great big hole to fill. Time, yes, but the gym is better. You don't really want her, lies etc.? Didn't say how old you are, but you fall in love with lots of frogs before you find the worthy princess!!! Stop bleeding and go to the gym, or at least run. It works I promise,

February 28, 2001
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In the famous words of Adam Sandler in The Wedding Singer, "Love Stinks". yes, time will heal your pains. My significant other and I broke up the day before Valentines. I feel like a bitter shell. But I've noticed that every day is just a little bit easier, not much, but a little. And working out definitely helps. You don't have to think, it's just you and physical exertion, then physical pain, but it feels good because you've accomplished something. Hang in there, if it wasn't an equal relationship you're better without it, and someday, you'll find someone who's willing to be everything you want her to be.

February 28, 2001
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When you say that you were living together, are you still living in the same place, did she just move out? Getting away from the place and the memories is the best thing in the world you can do. Staying in the physical environment where so much of the lying and deception took place will sap your inner strength and peace.

Just another thought.

March 1, 2001
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Thats what I like about this place, plenty of encouragement. Intelectualy I know that what each of you are saying is correct, but emotionaly I still feel a great loss. In time I know that the hurst will subcide, but I doubt I will ever feel so stronly about anyone. We had alot going for each other, the chemestry was right, and so many other things. I guess it just hurts that she did not see the potential we had as couple and the great life we could of had together. I think I'm also feeling a bit sorry for myself because I wonder if at my age (38 years) I will ever find somebody that feels so right. The bottom line is that I have no choice but to leave the pass behind and enbrace the future, what ever it might be.

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