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Need encouragement tonight
January 24, 2005
10:42 pm
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dustygirl
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I am going crazy tonight as I don't know where my b/f is. He always calls by now and I tried his office over an hour ago and they said his secretary said that he's been away from the office and is gone. He doesn't have his one cell phone on and is not answering his other one.

I don't know if something is wrong or he is with his ex. I think the latter, but he has always been so honest with me and I know he's been confused lately about whether to go back to her, but it is not like him not to call by now.

Did I do something or say something wrong? Will he call me or is he done? I can't get those thoughts out of my head. I don't know how I can function if he doesn't call. If I knew he was with his ex, I could deal with it, but not knowing is making me crazy. I don't know what to do.

January 24, 2005
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Dusty, stop the worry, it is a negative emotion...maybe he is at the store, maybe he is driving home right now...don't worry about things that you have no control over..how do you know, he may call you in a 1/2 hour. Take deep breaths, things will be ok, and keep posting ok!!!
((camer)))

January 24, 2005
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thanks Camer, but we have our own "private number" that i use to call on and that one is off. The one I am not suppose to use, his wife gets the bill, that one is on. Something is up if he was not at work today. He always calls and will tell me what's going on.

I know this is negative behavior, but I can't help but think I said something that made him do this. WE talked Friday and I said that maybe we should stop seeing each other for a while until he figures out what he needs to do, but I would hope he would tell me and just not "go away".

I am really scared and yes I know I have no control, but what if he doesn't call - what will I do?

January 24, 2005
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but what if he doesn't call - what will I do?...............I would do as I always have done for myself, NOTHING, Just live with the fear and the butterflies trying to control the outcome of any situation I find myself in.................I have no control over what happens in life. Now, that I have let go and let God, I hope to learn to change the things that I have become aware of in myself that help to make my life so unmanageable, isolated, and empty.

January 25, 2005
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dustygirl,

I'm so sorry you're feeling so bad. I hope by now you have heard from him.

But Camer is right....worrying isn't going to help. I know it's hard not to worry. I would be the same wreck as you if I were in your shoes. But from an outsider looking in....be good to yourself and try to get your mind off you b/f. You will hear from him. 🙂

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