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March 31, 2008
11:16 am
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shellbug
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hey everyone... i had a nick on here before but i dont really remember it so i made a new one.... i need anyones help on something. i am 18 and my boyfriend and i do things and he and i think i might be pregnant... and we arent sure what to do. it is still a little soon to take a test and i noticed me gaining a few extra pounds... if i am, i dont want to get rid of it b/c to me that is like murder. but i also dont want my parents to know....wut should i do???

March 31, 2008
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There is really no way to hide it from your parents sweetheart. Do you live close to your parents? It would be best if you could get them to support you through this time. Babies are a wonderful gift sweetheart but if your not ready for a child yet could you set him or her up for adoption? I got pregnant at 18 as well and I knew about a week before my first missed period that I was pregnant. Please feel free to post here sweetheart. ((Shellbug))

March 31, 2008
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If you are starting to gain a few pounds it is probably not too soon to take a test. Go ahead and do that. At least you will know one way or the other. Let us know what you find out.

March 31, 2008
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First you need to see for sure that you are pregnant.

Second, if you are you need to ask yourself are you ready to take on the responsiblity of being a mother and if the boyfriend don't stick around, are you ready to be a single parent.

Third, if you are not pregnant, then you as the woman should make sure that you are protected with something so that you want get pregnant.

And I hope that you are not thinking that by having a baby that it will bring you and your boyfriend a life of living happily ever after because it is not. The burden will be on you and only you.

You is young and you should be living YOUR LIFE and trying to figure out what you want out of life before you start bringing children into this world.

Bringing kids up in this world is not like playing with dolls and when you get tired of them you can put them on the shelve. This is real life and it is not a joke.

Nappy

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