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June 26, 2000
10:41 am
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I am a middleaged woman who has been married to my husband for eight months. I am attractive, a wonderful wife, and love him very much. He has told me he has no desire for sex now, that it's a phase and will pass. He said it hurt him to tell me this. He goes for days without talking to me, then acts like nothing ever happened. He then becomes very romantic (but no sex for a month now), cuddles me, tells me how much he loves me, that he would die without me, etc. I know very little about his life away from mine. He writes on a calendar where he will be working (he's an artist), but I'm new to this state and have no idea where it is. He never discusses his money, is very secretative about his computer and turns it off if I enter the room. To make a long story short, I want to know the symptoms of homosexual husbands. I don't know if this is his problem, or if he just has mood swings, depression, etc., but I need to find out. I feel suicidal.

June 26, 2000
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You sound as if before this husband you were self sufficient and okay with you.

Remmber...if he has a problem it is HIS problem...not yours. He was probly like this BEFORE you met him so don't let his problems affect how you feel about you and certainly don't let it affect your life....

Life will go on after him if that is what you choose....it went on before him...right?

Seek out a counselor...ask him to go with you after a couple of visits on your own.

If he is a homosexual it does not make you any less of a person.

You are not defined by a husband. You are defined by YOU.

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