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need a prayer or two...please!
August 24, 2006
2:20 pm
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risingfromtheashes
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Okay, so on cloud nine, but knocked down.

guy still hasn't called with job offer, and he said it would be done on Tuesday. Left him a voice mail but feel like a pest.

Housing that was previously available is being shown today and if that couple takes it, then I am out of luck. Put ad in newspaper, got newspaper and ad is not there, so another week lost.

School starts next week for daughter (in CT) and then the following up there....MUST get her transferred, if I am moving.

Under the gun and feeling like it's all falling apart.

so, please say a prayer for me....maybe this WASN'T the right path for me....or maybe it was the path I needed to take to meet the new guy....but I felt like it was the path to moving....because of how the job opportunity came up.

Anyway, not gonna second guess it....don't have internet at home, otherwise, would be doing more to scout my options - apply at other lumber companies....but don't know who they are or if they are as reputable as the one I applied to.

Really want to spend time with the new guy, but if not moving, then don't want to get hooked on a long distance relationship.

Not sure what to do....only thing I got is prayer.

help me with that please?

August 24, 2006
2:22 pm
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Oh, and add in that I am at the end of my fiscal month and 120 bucks short on all the bills, and tried to get car payment deferred, but was denied....can't afford NOT to pay the bills, cuz next month is tight too.

thought moving would solve things, but at this rate....dunno....just feel "stuck".

August 24, 2006
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((my prayers are with you))

I just moved too, and went on a job interview 2+ weeks ago, and thought for "sure" i'd get the job, no phone call back yet, left a message on voice mail too, and sent a thank you letter for the interview...still no word yet, I too don't want to be a pest.

ARrrrrg, as for bills, i had to foolishly used my "credit card" to pay the monthly bill for another
"credit card"...it sucks...but I am trying to get back in order.

Back to you now....do you have anything that you can "sell" or have a yard sale and make some extra money??? how about driving around to local big companies, and just putting in an application???

Take things one day at a time, cuz who knows what tomrrow has to offer.

I wish you strength thru all of this & know you're not alone and
(((more prayers your way))) aaaahh the power of prayer!

(((camer)))

August 24, 2006
2:46 pm
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Well, I can apply to local lumber yards, but the busy season is winding down and they don't really hire this time of year.

I can stay in my area, that's not the issue.

The issue is that if I want to leave, I have to leave NOW, or if I don't NOW, switch my daughter midstream and don't want to do that. My daughter WANTS to move now, and want to take that desire and run with it while I can....new kid moving into the neighborhood and she wants no part of being his neighbor and frankly, from what I have heard, I won't be able to leave her home alone, like I do, if he does move in.

soooooooooo, I could take a leap of faith and give all my notices and then move anyway.

Or I can fuss about it.

Or pray.

And just hope that the right thing will work out.

August 24, 2006
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i gave my notice, after I moved away, luckily it was alot of travel from one state to the other...but i did, i moved, i do have a part time job now, but still need more income.

What does your head say about moving?? do you really want to or do you have doubts???

August 24, 2006
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I REALLY want to.

But, the job I applied for is one hour from the town I want to live (because of school and friends for my daughter).

There isn't much economy up there, so this is really my only opportunity at this point.

I CANNOT move and travel back to current job - it's a five hour drive one way.

just dunno....my heart and head say move....that it's the right time.

but maybe not what my higher power wants?

August 24, 2006
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i too, in a way "didn't" want to move, but i needed the change....I think you should honestly do what you feel is right, even though you don't know what the outcome will be.

Who knows, maybe if you do move, things will go good, then if you don't, you may think "well, i wonder how things would have been if i did move"....this is a big change, maybe write down the pluses & minuses.....and not be afraid of the unknown.

August 24, 2006
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not really afraid of moving, that's the thing.

I WANT it.

But is it "do-able" is the question.

As I said, in this "neck of the woods", and it IS in the woods....the economy sucks.

Now, if I didn't have pre-existing debt, I would be up there now.

But I have existing bills that MUST be paid (car and a loan)....so I need to know that I have income coming in as soon as I make that move.

It's not a question of "what if", it's a question of "how can I".

I will NOT move without knowing I have a job, first of all, it's irresponsible....second of all, I won't find a rent if I can't provide proof that I can pay for it.

My family can't help, and my friends up there cannot "take me in" if things fall thru.

So, if I can't stand on my own two feet there, I can't do it.

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