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NEAR THE END, THERE IS NOTHING LEFT FOR ME
January 14, 2007
9:28 pm
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juswannabehappy
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HELLO. THATS IT, I CANT TAKE ANY MORE. I THINK MY HUSBAND GETS SOME KIND OF SICK THRILL OUT OF HURTING ME. THATS NOT LOVE. HE SAYS THAT WE ARE OVER BECAUSE I HAVE TOLD HIM ON OCCASION THAT I AM TOO TIRED TO HAVE SEX.
WE RUN A BUSINESS JUST THE TWO OF US. HE DRIVES A TRUCK AND I AM LEFT AS THE ACCOUNTANT, DISPATCHER, 24/7 DIRECTION GIVER, EMERGENCY PLANNER, AND SALES PERSON FOR THE ACCOUNT. OH YEAH, DID I MENTION THAT I ALSO HAVE 2 KIDS TO TAKE CARE OF AS WELL AS THE HOUSE. THAT IS A LOT OF RESPONSIBILITY, COMPARED TO BEFORE, WHEN I DIDNT WORK. ITS NOT MY FAULT THAT I AM TIRED. DONT GET ME WRONG, WE ARE NOT TALKING LIKE NO SEX FOR THE LAST 6 MONTHS, NO I MEAN WE WENT FROM 10 TIMES A WEEK TO 8 TIMES A WEEK- BIG DEAL RIGHT? TO ME THERE IS MOPRE TO LIFE THAN SEX. CUDDLING AND HOLDING EACH OTHER WHEN WE FALL ASLEEP, WHEN I AM TIRED IS ENOUGH FOR ME. FOR HIM, THIS IS COMPLETE REJECTION. THEREFORE, HE STATED TO ME THAT IF I DONT WANT GAMES PLAYED ON ME, I SHOULD PACK MY THINGS AND LEAVE.
HE MEANS, AND SAID, THAT HE IS GOING TO START LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO IS YOUNGER AND HAS MORE ENERGY, BECAUSE IN LIFE, ITS ALL ABOUT SEX, RIGHT? FAMILY, LOVE SUPPORT, GOOD MOTHER, GOOD WIFE, NO LIES, NO CHEATING, WELL, THAT IS JUST NOT IMPORTANT.
I WAS SO PHYSICALLY SICK TO MY STOMACH OVER THJIS ASSANINE SITUATION, THAT I THREW UP, AND THEN CRIED LIKE A LITTLE BABY- FOR ABOUT A 1/2 HOUR. HE LEFT AND SAID HE IS GOING OUT AND THATS IT, I SAID CAN'T YOU WAIT OUT OF RESOPECT, GIVE ME 1 DAY TO GET MY STUFF OUT. HE LEAVES ME WITH THE KIDS THROWING UP AND CRYING. HE SAYS HE WILL COME BACK, AS LONG AS I "GET THE FUCK OUT OF THE HOUSE". SORRY ABOUT THE LANGUAGE, JUST I FEEL THAT IT IS IMPORTANT TO SEE THE EVIL IN THIS MAN. WHEN I TOLD HIM THAT I THREW UP, HE SAID, "HEARING THIS JUST MAKES ME HATE YOU EVEN MORE."

January 14, 2007
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Honey, I am so sorry. This is not your fault. If you say no then no it should be. Evil guys like this get a kick from hurting us. If he wants you out that bad then go. But, you have 2 children so it should be him that goes so as to not upset the kids routine. Thinkgs are gonna be hard enough for them. If he has physically hurt you then get an Order of Protection at the courthouse. You will have appx 10 days before a hearing. That will give you time to get things in order for the next round, or fight.

((((jwbh))))

January 14, 2007
9:49 pm
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juswannabehappy
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hi mammacinnamin- i remember you from a long time ago. you helped me many times, i forget what my user name used to be. thank you for your input

January 14, 2007
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Oh I would love to remember you if you can remember your user name. Just print it when and if you do.

I'm glad you have been here before. You know you are free here to feel a little but if peace and a whole lot of stress relief; hopefully.

Please continue posting. i'm sure others will be glad to help you out also.

Nice to have you back. 🙂

January 15, 2007
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My ex was lucky to get it once a week, maybe thats why he is my ex... Is he an animal? Let this man go, he is treating you in an appalling fashion..

To talk to you that way like you are just there for his sexual desires and because u dont live up to his expectations he will trade you in for a younger model...

His last comment to you would be enough for me, i have met some doozys but none have ever said this to me....

Go live in peace with your kids, whatever it takes...you dont need to be spoken too and treated like this...

If you have sons then they will think thats what a woman is good for, run for the hills

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