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Nappy Here! Need help in no contact with ex who lives in same complex
April 10, 2007
5:13 pm
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I know that I have given advise to other so now I need that same thing also. I need to be in a NO CONTACT with this man. I need to not fall back into his trap and sometimes that can be hard. But I guess this time I am angry because he mess with my grandson.

My ex brought this puppy for himself and I didn't know it because we don't live together. His job had to send him out of town, so he ask me to look after it. (this was last week) My grandson was over and I didn't want him to see the puppy because I already knew that he was going to get attached to the thing. I don't have anything against my ex, I know that I still love him but with me taking care of the puppy, that made me and him starting back just talking. I don't have a problem with that either but then he wanted to see me (have sex), you know how they do when they want some from you, they start acting really nice but I'm sorry to say that this past week didn't leave me anytime to (have sex) I had plans to go see if I could buy me another car but difference things started to come up and I didn't have time to spend with him.
Well guess what, he got mad but he told my grandson, that on the weekend he can take care of the puppy because he have to go to his second job on the weekend and he told my grandson that the puppy was his also. Well this past friday I went to pick up my grandson and he thought that HIS PUPPY was at my house. Well my ex got mad at me because he felt that I put everyone first and I leave him last so he got mad at me and like a child don't want to talk to me but I called him to say that my grandson was crying because he wanted his puppy over to the house and when my ex called back, beside saying something nice, he replied with
'YOU CALLED ME" in that type of tone and I already knew how he is and I just hung the phone and explain to my grandson that, this puppy is not our and it we need to leave the puppy right where he belong. I wish that I could tell him that he might have hurted me but I be dam if he is going to hurt my grandson. I finally gotten him calm down to not want the pupppy no more but this man live in my complex. I still don't know why he moved in my complex but this is truly a no contact with this person ever again.
I'm just so angry right now I don't know what to do.
Nappy!

April 10, 2007
5:28 pm
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ya know it is so easy to do to fall in a trap that the ex sometimes lay upon you without even realizing. You start to forget. But the good news is that these ex quickly do something to remind you of why they are the ex. You have a right to be angry. Go pound a pillow and remind yourself of how far you have come without him. IT is his problem what he has to deal with and his mess to clean up and that includes the dog. Your grandson as predicted got too attached to puppies because aren't puppies too cute for words however he has no clue what is involved. Sounds to me like the ex is trying to buy some love and well we know you cant really buy love after all he has done. Nappy you continue on your merry way of handling yourself the way you always inspire the rest of us to do and this little episode will be blown with wind. Id say he is getting a taste of what he dishes out by you putting him last where he belongs. Don't you worry that he is stewing. The longer you keep your foot down, the more he will realize you will not be pushed around. Maybe he will venture on out of the complex and give you peace. I will chat with you later angel.

April 10, 2007
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Taj, thank you and I hope that you had a pleasant easter.

I'm angry but I will not stay stuck there. It just make me mad that someone could play with a child feeling but the whole time that he was saying that to my grandchild, I was just looking at him.

I wanted to say to my grandson, but he is to young that
If grandmother give him some play, my ex would be very happy but as soon as grandmother don't want to do what he wants, then watch out, he don't want to talk to us anymore.

April 10, 2007
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Sounds to me like manipulation and its no mistake that the first three letters of the word manipulation starts with the word man.

The fact that he lives near to you can pose some problems only if you let it happen. Be strong, move along, and do not allow his behaviour to manipulate you into taking him back even if only for a roll in the hay.

He wanted to get you angry, (maybe so you two can kiss and make up) which is why he used the puppy ploy with your Grandson. And you do know what to do don't you?

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