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my wife is depressed
August 31, 2001
12:07 am
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pollylove1
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my wife was sexualy abused as a child, now she thinks i reminder of him she has now decided to become lesbian. she is very depressed stays through the day but spends the nights at moms. she wont get help and shes killing her self. help me please

August 31, 2001
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well I was molested too and all though my husband doesn't remind me of him or anything there are things he does that just makes my blood boil and I know that stems from the abuse... like when I walk past him and he reaches put and touches me... that really does it... I know that he doesn't realize that it hurts me so much... I have told him but not untill three years in to the marriage... he is /was just being affectionate.. ask her just what you do that reminds her of that... because it really isn't "you"... maybe if you talked about it and maybe offered to get you both in counseling for it you can work it out ... do ya'll have kids? has she found another woman... how are ya'll when she is there during the day...Sue

August 31, 2001
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This is just an opinion, But I think mabye she is just projecting these feelings on you because that is how she knows to deal with this, I honestly dont think that you really remind her of him mabye just that she has come to a point to where she has to deal with the old momories and come to terms with this. or a far fetched theory is that she is using it as an excuse to be with a woman. and I dont think that someone just decides to be gay there has to be prior feelings I know this because I have struggled with it my entire life and just in the past few years decided to let certain people know about it. I like being with women but I want to settle down with a man. but talk to her and let her know that you are there for her. lay off of the sex thing and dont bring up the other woman it will just make her defensive. just encourgage her to seek help, like counsling, so she can sort these feelings out. let her know that she can come to you with anything.

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