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My small moment of bliss...I DID IT!! I DID IT!!!
July 21, 2005
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I've been through a great deal the past few weeks and just now...I felt a small moment of bliss at the EXs expense...sorry...

He phoned me to have me call a client to find out the status of payment. He said he needed the money to pay for his electric deposit. I said okay. It was great news to me because we had no idea who still owed money in the company. He also said that he wouldn't be at the tournament tonight. I said okay.

So I called client, let them know about the new address etc...phoned him back and told him that I had reminded them. I then very sweetly said "Hey I forgot your window is broken, I bet XXXX would come pick you up tonight." He said, Nope...no fundage.

Ya'll don't know...he never ever misses these tournaments because he usually wins around 50.00 for the night. This is a huge and I mean HUGE thing for him...I was a good girl, didn't offer to cover his expenses, just said Okay, talk to you later...I DIDN'T CAVE IN!! I DIDN'T CAVE IN!!!

Woo Hoo!! I did it...I detached with love for the first time...

July 21, 2005
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Sexy,

How adorable are you!!!! I couldn't help but smile when I read the excitement in your post.

Keep up the good work.

Lolli

July 21, 2005
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Sexy,
Again I say "YOU GO GIRL"! I too had my first small empowering moment-I got a text message around 2:00 a.m. (gee, do ya think he was drinking!!!???) asking me if I would meet him tonight at "our" spot to talk. Guess what I did????? NOTHING! I turned off the phone, rolled over and went to sleep. I didn't react at all, and I felt damn good when I got up this morning! I just kept thinking...no contact, no contact, no contact, and I got through it! I'm proud of both of us!!!

(((Hugs)))
Starshine

July 21, 2005
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Woo Hoo!! You go Starshine!!

We can do it...this little moment of bliss gave me some incredible strength. Whoosh...either he was too ashamed to ask her for it or she turned him down. Either way you could tell he was bummed. He's never missed a tournament since we started them 7 mos ago.

On a side note...right now I was figuring out her expenses...10.00 for a 12pack, 3 bucks for smokes...that's about 100.00 a week she's footing the bill on. She's going to have to do that plus pay for his gas and food for at least the next month before the company will be paying him any money. His partner is still fuming that he blew that 700.00 down in Houston. She's not giving him a dime till the company is out of debt. God Bless her!!

July 21, 2005
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Sexy,

Cigarettes for 3 bucks!!!!! Where?????

Apparently you're not on the east coast......

Lolli

July 21, 2005
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No kidding Lolli, $5.45 a pack here! Gotta stop that nasty habit! It's good to see you around here and there, I've missed you! I hope all is well with you and the bf.

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Starshine

July 21, 2005
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Hmmm. I am in Dallas. I pay 2.59 for Marlboro Lights 100 at CVS. I remember they were over 5.00 in NYC last time I was there...I packed in preparation for the trip!!

Yeah, I need to quit also. I used to smoke 1/2 a pack a day...jumped up to 1 1/2 to 2 packs the past couple of weeks. Yesterday I cut down to 1 an hour...today 1 1/2 hours...tomorrow hopefully 2 hours.

July 21, 2005
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Here in the midwest it was up to 4.00 for a while but now name brands are generally 3.50 ish. Of course now that it's finally afordable, I only smoke a pack every few weeks (only socially and seldone then). What I wouldn't give to have all that money before back...

Sexysadie, so sorry to turn your glowing moment (big step, by the way, I can see why you are thrilled!) into glowing embers and how much I pay for them! What a bunch of feinds we are!:)

July 21, 2005
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Yes, I'm sorry as well Sexy, that your thread turned to the price of cigarettes....I just couldn't help it....$2.59 a pack!!!! Wow....I have a $10 a day habit! (that's 2 packs, btw)

Anyway, back to the issue at hand.

Starshine....thank you for your kind thoughts.

Lolli

July 21, 2005
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ah...it's alrighty...hmmmm maybe I should go buy a few cartons and sell em to ya'll at a big discount!! LOL!!!

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