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My own thread : anyone is welcome : horsefly
August 26, 2008
1:04 am
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this is off....be on this forum for years....not just since last year..we can email each other Now? that Nappy is long gone....
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(((((((((((soofooo)))))) You have been on my mind so much. I just could not bear bringing up our thread and it just reminded me of all the crap that need not happen in the beginning.

You are a very special friend to me. ( I know I say that alot to my friends here , but special in their own way to me ) But hell I have been supported and supported many so I just know the ones that are my special friends by heart. You are a special friend because of your bravery and not only standing by me and validating me ......you also stood up for the person you are. Which to me is honorable to say the least. You stuck it out and came through.....my dear honorable friend. Never no one has done that with me. Never not just on this site but in real life, I have always tried to stand up for the underdog but found out nobody was behind me or with me.....so naturally I walk off and feel horrified. But you were there for me for the first time in my life I did not feel crazy or misunderstood..........It didn't even matter who was wrong or right after awhile with me I knew only how I felt......and you validated me.

Well that is a good gift from you and I doubt I could ever repay that one. I usually walk away and say forget it I am dealing with a bad force and I won;t ever win........I wasn't looking to win.......I just wanted to be heard with respect.......didn't happen. But bless you my friend.....I think you have done something for me nobody has ever had the guts to do before.....So Thank you soofoo, Much Love, horsefly

August 26, 2008
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((((Horsefly)))),

I wish you best!! Sounds like you are in a really good space now. I hope that this contiunes.

Thanks for mentioning my name. I not sure what I did. I just know that it means everyhting to poeple when they are heard, understood, and their feelings are validate. It seems that that is all that you were looking for. It is so wonderful that you have such comfort here and from sooo many that have come to know you nad to love you.

I wish you the best. I look forward to hearing all about the place when you have it fixed up. keep up the GREAT WORK!

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August 29, 2008
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Good Morning Horsefly! How is it waking up in your new home, stretching to each new day knowing that you are HOME! and you and Sister can live!

This is Friday morning and summertime August warm already. Temps are hitting triple digits where I am nestled away beside a river in the mountains of California.

I have been thinking about your new situation, and the wonderful new road. You are now free, you know what you have to live with, you can get your medical needs seen to, and you can put food in your own refrigerator.

I hope that you're able to continue with a computer. Do you have a library in your town? I do, and that's the first place I hit when I arrived. They have a computer for pubic use, and I am friendly with the librarian, so she lets me use it for longer than the usual hour when I need to. Also, it's my reading fix. And, heck, me being reclusive with no money, she's the only person I've met in this town!

Anyhow, I do have several things on my mind that might help you out with finances. But, I'm pushed to write you now incase you hit town today, just so you'll be sure to come back! Plus, I am anxiousy awaiting you'rs and Nappy's reunion!!!!!

Have you applied for food assistance? If you haven't get to that right away. If you don't know where to go, Google Food Stamps for [name your state] and you'll be directed to the USDA site. There is a formula online to see if you qualify (I am sure you do). Don't be ashamed, this federal program has kept me alive.

Telephone service. Start with your local phone company and inquire if there is a State or Federal funding program for low-income or disabled persons. (In California the landline ends up costing $2, yes that's two dollars, per month.)

You mentioned that you have unpaid medical bills. Contact each service provider and find out if there is any hardship program you may qualify for. Especially now that you know what your monthly income will be, it's unrealistic that you will be able to pay on these without creating a greater hardship to you. So far, i have had all of my medical fees granted 100% hardship. Boy was that a relief. Last year my leg broke (to add to my broken life!) in 28 pieces to the tune of $32,000, and all those fees were taken care of and they granted me 100% medical needs for one year!

Angels and people watching out for nice people like you and me that just need some extra helping hands to get through this portion of life.

I am so glad you have this thread for us to find you. You are still going to need us, and we'll all be here for you.

I want to hear all about your new home! Personally, i think that was the smartest investment you could have made!!!!! This investment will come to help you m any times over. oh sometimes, it may seem a burden, but, in the long run, take care of it and this will last you for years and years to come and benefit you over and over again!

Love to you Horsefly and Sister. Happy happy road tunes to you!

Love Shep! (and Buttercup)

(now I have to find a phoneline so I can send this, I don't have phone service, just a cell, so going online is difficult and I depend on others for that.)

August 29, 2008
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(((((Horsefly)))))

I wish I had your courage and strength right now...

August 29, 2008
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((((((Horsefly)))))))

I just felt like sending you hugs.

September 15, 2008
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Hi Horsefly,

Sending hugs and warm thoughts and hoping you and Sister are happy in your new home!

(((((((Horsefly))))))))

Love to you from Shep and Buttercup!

September 15, 2008
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(((HORSEFLY)))

See what I get for not bein around? I didn't know you have a new home. Wishing you all the best also. 🙂

September 15, 2008
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((((((((((HORSEFLY))))))))))

September 15, 2008
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((((Horsefly)))

Tell me how you have been doing, girl

September 15, 2008
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((((( horsefly)))))

October 22, 2008
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I don't know if you still read, horsefly. But if you do, holler back.

October 22, 2008
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((((Horsefly)))) WOO HOO let's hear it for horsefly!!!

(((soofoo)))~ How are you doing these days? I hope you are doing well !

October 22, 2008
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(((((Horsefly)))))

I am thinking about you girl. I hope all is well.

Precious

October 22, 2008
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Horsefly, You are not forgotten, thats for sure. I hope you'll be able to check in here soon.

October 22, 2008
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Hello Giggles darling! It's always nice to you see you around. Your positive attitude is a welcome gift.

I have made some changes in my life that I will probably want to write about soon.

How are you and your daughter?

October 28, 2008
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Hello horsefly! we are here!!!!!

October 28, 2008
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((((Horsefly))))

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