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my mom knew and my dad didn't. mom never told anyone.
February 15, 2010
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i was molested when i was small, i remember it to this day! my mom knew about it and i JUST found out that my dad had no clue of what happened. i was made to feel dirty, she called me a slut,whore and then she started a rumor in school that i was gay! i was forgiving in ALL of those things! but now this! HOW!! and by her being silent his has moved on to other girls. and her current husband is in prison and she is trying to get him out. he has 2 consequtive sentences of 15 yrs each for molestation and she is trying to get him out! It was her own GRANDDAUGHTERS! now she is calling them names. that is why i started asking questions about why nothing was done in my case. how can i let this go? How often does this happen?

February 15, 2010
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I cannot answer you. Our stories are too similar except my dad knew and a stop was put to it. When I can think better I will try to post more to you.

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February 15, 2010
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I am truly saddened to hear this camping girl. I hope the best for you in your search for answers..

February 16, 2010
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It happens more often than is acceptable. You are not alone. Have you sought counseling for yourself? Getting counseling could be a good step in processing and figuring out whether additional action will help you and others affected by these horrible acts of abuse.

February 16, 2010
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Such atrocities happen more often than many of us care to admit. My heart really goes out to you.

Your mother is a highly toxic human being, utterly lacking in motherly affection or protective instincts. She may even have a personality disorder/mental illness. This is something best determined by a mental health professional.

I strongly urge you to stay clear of her. Step back and sever any contact you have with her. If you have never been able to obtain therapy to address the horror of what you have endured (both from your molester AND from your toxic mother), then please do so. A Rape Crisis Hotline might even be able to direct you to help, if finances are tight.

If there is any way to prosecute this evil man, pursue it. Someone needs to put him behind bars (if he isn't there already), to protect other innocent victims from this predator. You can contact the Sexual Crimes Detective of your local Police Department for guidance in this area.

Again, please stay clear of your mother. She is not a real mother, just a woman who happened to biologically produce a child: YOU. Protect yourself from her sickness.

- Ma Strong

February 17, 2010
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Thanks Bitsy and Mugsie for your comments.
Yeah I'm finding out everyday of more and more simular stories. IT'S SICK! No i haven't went to a counselor, but my bestest friend is talking to me (she has been thru it to, but the system let her down)she is sending me a book and she said it helped her. but all the reading and website information, is only tools to get me to where i need to be, so i can start healing. she said that it had to come from within and that could only be done by me and a higher power.
Yes i know she is sick and i have known it for a long time, but i always made excusses for her, ican't excuss this, how could i even start?! I'm not speaking to her and never will! I'M DONE!! I know you are suppose to honor and respect your parents, but don't they have to pertect us or something?? This has turned me bitter REALLY bitter! i hate that! i'm short with people that acts ignorant. this is not me! I hate it!!!
The man that did the molesting to me is currently on trial, but my dad don't know which state. He is currently trying to find this out with out causing a big family up roar. And yes i will put in what happened to me for the prosecution and if charges can be made against the lady that brought me into this world then I just may go that far with this. I got to go and get on my knees for a bit. Thanks onlyboringontheoutside and StronginHim77

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