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My Husband Cheating Almost Took My Life
November 5, 2006
12:34 am
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MOEY
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I know how hard it is I have trouble sleeping and eating i try not to think about my husband affair but it is hard. Driving in the car with my kids something I just break down and cry will the sick feeling ever go away

November 6, 2006
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The sick feeling does go away. I don't have it as much as I use too. I feel this site is helping that. I know time does heal pains, you don't forget, but you do heal. Just have to go through the process. Keeping those feelings bottled up isn't helping us. So just like I am trying to do-keep talking. I am definitely listening. It's gonna get better one way or another.

November 6, 2006
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Wow! I've never been married, but I have definitely been cheated on by the same person MANY times for 10 years. I know that sick feeling. I also felt that it was something he was missing in me. But I finally realized that he was just a DOG. I don't believe in giving a man an excuse to cheat. So Daeja, if your husband had a problem with you in your relationship, he only added to it by going outside of the relationship. I hurt for you and I'm also here/hear for you. Day-by-day, you'll receive healing.

November 9, 2006
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I know the exact sick feeling that you are talking about. And in the beginning it will almost consume you. But you have to be strong and contol it and not let it control you. My husband's affair is still pretty fresh (6 months ago I found out) but I am getting better everyday. Reading your response made me tear up because I know how much it hurts.

November 9, 2006
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WOW! Where do I start? I just found out 2 weeks ago my husband has been having an affair and is apparently in love with another woman. We have been married a little over a year, and have been together 7 years. This relationship has been going on for over 6 months. I am hurt, and very angry. I dont know what to do! I am scared! My every thought is consumed with total kaos.

November 9, 2006
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Caramel
Thank you for the response every response actually helps me tremedously. Thank you for sympathizing. I haven't told it all, still to shaky but messages like yours make me strong. I believe it.

Stuckinlove
I just want to say, I am sooo sorry. Honey I am still angry too. I can't seem to get any closure, I can't even get an MRI to check the dent I feel on my forehead. I made it through the first moments by asking God to help me make it to the next minute. I've been doing it every since. It's been since April for me and it feels like yesterday. I know your hurt. I know your anger. We can't let that control us as caramel said. Pray baby, pray. I am praying for both of you. I would like to know what the name of your thread is so I can check on you two. I think outside of Mich, I really feel a connection to the both of you. Don't know why. I just go with the flow. So please keep you head to the skies and remember I am here, with my ears and my heart.Always remember he the other woman and you are children of God, they just lost there way. Pray for them,I do it helps me to stay in a positive mind. Anger and fear are DEAMONS, and we are hugging them. Staying angry and scared keeps us confused and giving "them" more power. Let's take it back. stuckinlove, just keep talking. I am here.
Much Love to you both

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