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My heart is breaking at the realization that I am a mistake
May 4, 2007
8:33 pm
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danielle7373
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i dont think my last reply posted, so i'll type again...

i'm glad you're calming down.

sometimes we all just get worked up so easily...

and it's not easy to catch ourselves before getting so worked up/angry/upset.

and sometimes we just let it all build up until we explode and then relax after that.

why are you so overwhelmed? is there anything you can get rid of? or is all just your family information that overwhelms you.

i'm glad you posted - i'm kind of overwhelmed right now, too. although i've kinda just numbed myself and don't let anything get to me. although i have all this stuff i want/need to do... but i just dont care.

May 5, 2007
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Well, I am overwhelmed because I have finals next week, I have to find an apartment because I am moving to NY in July. I have to pack at some point. I have to get ready for a trip to Europe in June that my best friends parents are taking me on as a graduation present. I have to figure out a way to speak to my mother again. I have to take care of myself emotionally. I have to start looking for a job at some point so that I can start working in NY. I found out my father isn't my biological father and all I want to do is relax. It doesn't seem i have that option right now though and it is all building up.

May 5, 2007
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you can relax - you'll have to try really hard because you have so much going on, but focus on one thing at a time. it sounds like the trip, a job, and an apartment are your priorities.

and maybe you can get some friends to help you pack??

focus on yourself for now and accepting with what you've found out. you'll be able to talk to your mother again when you're ready. don't force it though. just do these things - moving and your trip - and let your own life adjust.

just know you're not a mistake. you're still the same person you've always been, and keep taking the steps you want to take in YOUR own life.

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