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My girlfriend won't go to councling???
March 14, 2001
1:54 pm
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stones_dj
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I have been having problems in my relationship over the past several years. It has gotten to the point my girlfriend said we have tried everything and now wants it to be over. I am not willing to give up and I want to show her that I want to go to counceling this time and finish. She doesn;t really want to put the effort in and doesn't think that I will follow through. I have a problem with following through in the past and now she doesn't trust that I wil this time. I am about to loose her and I realize that I need to get progessional help. What should I do If I want to change and she doesn't believe I will. WHAT SHOUL I DO ?

March 14, 2001
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you can't make you girlfriend go to counseling if she doesn't want to. Go by yourself. Prove to her you are willing to try to help yourself first so that you can give more of yourself to the relationship. The proof is in the action. let her know that you are going to couseling by yourself and stick to it. she just might come around. good luck

March 14, 2001
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Stones,

It's gonna be all right. If you are really trying to get help, which I believe you are, then go for it and prove to her that you will follow through. Now, I m a guy too, and if she decides to leave anyway then the heck with her. I was once in your place, and I did all I could, but she was determined to go, so I just said good ridance and when she came crawling back, she got the door slammed in her face 🙂 Also, if you're getting help, do it for you. Then, the better you can very well help save the relationship.

March 15, 2001
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Now she is trying to catch me in Lies, it I don't tell her every exact word that was said to either my family or my ex-wife about my daughter then she explodes in anger. She will call my mom after I just talk to her and see exactally what was said, if our words don't match up then Whammmmm !! she is mad as hell calling me a lier etc. it the times we talk arn't the same the same thing happens. What a nightmare.. WHat should I do ?

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