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January 15, 2007
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theater07
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My Finance and I were together for 2 years so far. Fundamentally, we have tolerated terrible problems in the past; but strive our best working things out. Every since dating with her, I've notice that she used similar (same) vocabulary in a conversation. Her are some examples- whatever, so, duh, not my problems, what I'm gonna do, or on and on. Guys you know how women is with their's insolent attitude. Be honest, I love my finance, but her attitude have gotten to go.

I told her, "can you please change your attitude." She said, "it was my ex-boyfriends ruin my life and thats how I change to a bad attitude." I once said, "In those matter, I am not your ex-boyfriend. I am your finance meaning that I care and love you. Giving me a nasty attitude is unacceptable." She alway say, "I'll try my best but STOP COMPLAINING." I was like "whoa!!! Don't come around me with that kind of tongue attitude." She said, "so what, GET USE TO IT!"

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Please give me the best advice- what should I do next?

January 15, 2007
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DON'T GET MARRIED!!! This is the best advice ever.....

January 15, 2007
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No really, you have got to look at what your getting into here. Obviously you need to really think about spending the rest of your life with her and this attitude. You are going to sign a contract to give her half of whatever you own. Don't even do this if you have some doughts right now. To have a great relationship, there is give and take. If you can be you, she can be she, both of you can be us, if you can grow, she can grow, and you can both grow together, that is a good relationship. Read between the lines on all this. Communication, give and take with each other, build trust etc.....Marriage should be a good thing, not a "what if thing".

January 15, 2007
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In fact, she taking up for her mother's vocabulary. For example, whenever her mother tells her "please respect me and respect my house. Quit disrespecting me!"

When it comes to our relationship (1 on 1), I likes taking the elevator than the stair to get to my apartment on the 5th floor, as an example.

Somehow, she gets this nasty attitude with me and use her mother's vocabulary, "PLEASE RESPECT ME! RESPECT ME AND TAKE THE STAIR!"

Even when we in the argument, she tends use her mother's vocabulary, still. She believe everything of what her mother be saying even though she's the only (one) daughter for her mother.

What can I legally do or say about this? She's driving me NUTS!!

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