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MY FAMILY IS DISTRAUGHT
January 6, 2006
3:55 pm
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pathfinder
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About 20 minutes ago my sister was hysterical crying because she couldn't handle my telling her i didn't want to live. Her husband grabbed the phone from her and hung it up. My entire family is all UPSET and it is because of ME.

I have no one left to turn to. I see my therapist this afternoon. I will tell her just how messed up the situation has gotten. HOPELESS. I feel so sorry for hurting my family. Now I've really messed things up. I'm good at that. I. I've burned my support system to the ground. Everyone is sick and tired of my BS. If I could just lock myself in a room and stop bothering everyone. I don't mean to do it. In trying to save myself it seems I am hurting those around me. Sucking everyone dry like my ExN did me. It is HE WHO SHOULD BE DEALING WITH THE MESS HE LEFT NOT INNOCENT BY STANDARDS!!!!!!

I don't know where my relationships are headed. All of them seem to be going down the tubes. Is there a way out???

January 6, 2006
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the path is one day at a time.

January 6, 2006
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Hey Pathfinder,

I am sorry for all the pain and agonies you're going thru. I know at some stage when I was teenage, I had similar negative emotions and my life sucked that's why my heart goes out for you, sweetie.

I am excited that you're going to see your therapist this afternoon. I hope that will make you feel better.

Have you considered attending any self-improvement meetings, such as Coda, AA, 12 steps etc?

I am very likely to go to my 1ST Coda meeting tomorrow, weather permitting, and am looking forward to it.

Keep posting and give us more details so that we can help you more!

(((Hugs)))

January 6, 2006
10:15 pm
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Path,
your family is not your only source of emotional support, and if they fail to be able to support you through your difficult times, let your therapist help you find another way out.

It is hard, but sometimes necessary, to abandon our natural desire to find love and accepatance among our kin.

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