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my exboyfriend
November 12, 2002
12:16 pm
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My boyfriend and I haven't seen each other for several years because of long distance. We usually communicated with each other by letters and telephones. He once called me and said "Since we have known each other for so long, why don't we get married?". I felt the way he asked is so insincere. Why can't he come to see me and face to face to talk about it? I didn't give him certain answer. He then asked again in next phone call. I asked him where we are going to live. He was kindda unhappy and said "no body asks this kind of question.". I feel weird. He wanted to get married but he doesn't want to talk about the most pratical question about the marriage. He then told me " I do have other choices." I can't believe he can actually say it in such frank way. It seems that if I don't say yes, he can ask someone else. I was really mad. We didn't end up that conversation nicely. Later on, I called him and he always answered the phone in very cold tone or said something really sour. I was hurt by his attitude and words. We didn't contact each other for several years. However, there is still a space where I keep those romantic and sweet memory of him deep insid of me. I was still wishing that was a bad argument between us but later on we will be fine.

I found his phone number and called him. I was not sure if he doesn't want to answer the phone or the phone was cut off. I then asked his old university alumini to contact him for his new phone number. His old university alumini said his family doesn't want to give out his phone number for personal reason.

I feel really lost. He was my boyfriend and my goodfriend. However, I feel I lost him for so long that we can't keep in touch anymore. Everything between him and I is like a mystry. Even until now, his memory still come into my life. Sometimes, in my dream, in the middle of arguments between me and my spouse, in any speacial festival days. Can anyone explain to me what really happened between him and I?

November 12, 2002
6:13 pm
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Your advice really wake me up. All this time, I kept thinking if I was the one fail the relationship. I thought I was not very smart to loss him.
Now, I think about it. I think you are right. I should cherish what I have right now. Someone I can really see, hold and touch.
Thanks for helping me to move on.

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