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my dad keeps bothering me
December 10, 2001
6:25 pm
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I have been with my girlfriend for a little over a year. She is a couple of years behind in her education and she is 4 yrs older than me. I am 21, she is 25. Because of those reasons my dad always tells me that I am wasting my time with her and that she is not good for me. He even disrespects her and doesn't treat her well when he sees her. Can anyone tell me whats so bad about having an older girlfriend? How should I talk to my dad about telling him that she is a good friend of mine.

December 10, 2001
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Its not very polite for him to be rude to her, and that is just unexcusable. But the other side of it, besides taking a stand to dad, which Blondie suggests, we all have to do it sooner or later, is that perhaps he sees something in her that you can't. What do your friends think? I mean if every one has an issue, you might have to take a hint, maybe dad thinks she is a gold digger or something, maybe he thinks she is to experienced for you, and then again, maybe he should let you live your own life.

December 11, 2001
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How old is your dad? I think he should mind his own beeswax. But don't tell him I said that.

December 11, 2001
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No. 1 - you're 21. That pretty much says it all. It's none of his business who you "choose" to be with AND his rudeness to her - should be cut real short, real quick by you. It's your life, not his. If he was so concerned....and if that was the pivot point of everything - he wouldn't be rude to her. He'd just talk politely to you about it. Sounds to me like he has other things on his mind regarding her that might not be so honorable...

And if you've been with her for over a year and she's your girlfriend - why should you have to talk to him about her being a friend of yours? What about this - doesn't he get already? It's pretty black and white. And it's real obvious - the lack of respect is coming from his corner. I wouldn't worry about how to talk to him, I'd just say - knock it off. If I want your opinion, I'll ask for it.

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