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my dad is havin health problems again...
April 5, 2010
10:48 pm
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hi all!
hope u had a great Easter... we had a good one..
my dad has had like 5 heart attacks and he is only 60..
he said he had another one last week and he is VERY weak (he has been for awhile) but this is worse than usualy, he sleeps like all the time..
idk. he says the dr cant do anything for him cause his 'bypasses' are closed and they cant do another bypass surgery, he already had quadruple one a while back.. but im very worried about him...
i hope he makes it to my son's third birthday which is in may :/
Please be ""ayin for him.. thinkin about him for me.... idk what i will do if something happens, we lost his brother a year ago last month and he was like a father 2 me...
i need ur thougths with him please 🙂
thanks
--inner

April 6, 2010
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(((INNER))) many thoughts your way, and i do hope your dad does get better, even a lil' day by day.

Yes, i was going to mention "bypass" surgery, which i know of many people who have had, yet is unfort. the docs can't do anything for him...with all the medical procedures and what not, I am sure he (your dad) maybe can get a 2nd opionion or tt another doc about what "can" be done.

My thoughts and p's are with him and you!!!

(((camer)))

April 6, 2010
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Sometimes Inner there comes a point where we have to take charge of our parents. I don't know if your dad has a wife or not but I would think one of you would want to go to his next doctors appt. Sometimes they end up on so much medication they don't understand what is going on.

Bitsy

April 6, 2010
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hi all,
Camer,, thx
Bitsy, yes... he and my mom r still married and i told her she needs 2 make him go to an appt with his dr.. but she acts like that would be 'goin behind his back and make him mad at her' well so.. u R his wife.. his child cant really do that but ur wife surely can..

anyway, he really thinks there's nothing else 2 b done cause he had one by pass surgery and i think they dont let u do 2 of em..or it wouldnt be good u know.. but he says he only has the 'spider veins' 2 his heart now and he has terrible circulation in his legs so he cant even really walk much..... it is hard cause i feel like he is just 'giving up ' and i cant MAKE him do anything...

im in a bad way cause i got my very high cholesterol from him and im only 35 and i have 2 loose 50plus lbs in one year.. 'the dr said so' lol
but i need 2 do it so i will be around for my son2 grow up :/

thanks
have a good day..

April 6, 2010
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Inner, I am not a nurse or doctor (but I have slept at Holiday Inn Express before 😉 but this is not making sense. My grandfather had several bypass surgeries. When do you see your doctor again? I might pepper them with some questions. After all it is your future health you are looking after. Good luck.

Bitsy

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