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My Cat DIsappeared. Please Pray for Her Return
December 30, 2006
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What did she look like? I just adopted a new stray, can't find the owner, don't have the heart to leave her out for the winter.
Beautiful totally black long hair with a tiny almost not there--white scratch (or white patch) on the very tip of her nose.

What ever the outcome--I hope your kitty is safe and warm--preferably with you.

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December 30, 2006
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slo,

She's a gray kittie. I am really hoping that someone took her in though. Sometimes people even take cats in and don't look for the owner.

Right now, I could not even begin to guess what the scenario is with her. Even my intuition or gut feeling is just not providing any answers.

January 3, 2007
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No kittie. Nothing. I have more been about letting go today and accepting she is gone. Ouch! There has been so much work on this, thought, prayers, grieving, looking and looking for her, and an interesting experience with a trusted psychic friend who got the impression that some kid inadvertently did some damage to kittie, i.e. held her too tight. I really don't want to know anymore about this, if this is indeed true, because there is nothing I can do about this.

Either kittie is on the other side and at peace, or she is in a new home and being provided for. SHe wouldn't be suriving if she were not in a new home. I am inclined to think she left this planet. There's nothing else I can do about this. And, somehow there is some relief in this. I feel waves of sadness at times, and I am going to gather some momentos of her to keep in a special place in my house. But, I think there just has to be some more closure today. Closure doesn't mean "getting over" this. I don't think that's a right way to think about it. Its just that closure and acceptance happens in degrees and there has been more of it today. My buddy for 13 years.

January 3, 2007
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(((((Grace)))) I'm sorry she hasn't returned.

If she's gone to the other side she can play with five of my fur kids.

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January 3, 2007
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(((((((((Gracenotes))))))))))

I can imagine how hard it is to let go of your kittie of 13 years. I had a cat for 18 years and I know how special they become in our lives.

A few years back, one of our cats disappeared and after 2 days I made flyers to distribute. I called my closest neighbors and one saw an accident which lead me to call the police which lead me to the vet to pick up my cats body. It was sad but at least I had closure. I buried her in our yard. Its hard to have closure when you still have hope she will turn up. I have another story about my cat that lived a long life. She disappeared from my home the day I broke up with a fiancee. I called him and asked him if he took my cat. He promised he hadn't. After 3 weeks, he finally gave her back to me. It tore my and my daughters up. I hope that you can grieve and find comfort and know that I care about you and your grieving.

January 4, 2007
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So sorry she has not been found! Don't give up hope. You just never know.

January 4, 2007
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((GRACE & KITTY)))

January 4, 2007
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Cyndra, mj, taj, camer,

Thank you all for your kind words and hugs, and for everyone's input here. I just maintaining positive thoughts for kittie, wherever she is.

January 4, 2007
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(((grace)))

I hope you find peace or your cat...either way you will be ok.

January 4, 2007
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I am an animal lover and I know what it feels like to lose a friend that is dear to you. But what is worse is not knowing what happened to them. There is no final ending. This can be harder than finding them dead. My thoughts and prayers are with you. horsefly

January 4, 2007
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Gracenotes,

I will keep on praying for you. You never know. The cat may turn up. Life has little miracles that happen everyday and when you think there is no hope, maybe she will come home. I hope you reunite soon or at least hope that someone else is taking care of her. I know sometimes if a cat gets loose, someone will feed them and then they come back day after day to get fed, and the next thing you know, they have a new pet. Someone may think that she is a stray. There is still hope sweetie.

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January 6, 2007
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(((( Grace )))) I have been thinking about you and your kitty since I first read about her disappearance. I can relate sooo much because my pets (4 cats and 1 dog) are everything to me and I consistently think of their well-being every day. I let my cats out because I feel they need and deserve adventure but I know the risks too that are possible. I've been blessed that they've returned day in day out thus far. But one of my guys in particuliar, is very difficult to get back inside. I have done quite the number searching up and down my block, shaking food treats, calling his name, looking for him pretty much daily. Last week, he never showed up all night and that is rare. He usually makes at least some appearances throughout the day so I knew something was wrong. The next day I went through the street again, already in my mind believing something went wrong, when low and behold I saw him crouched on a garage top crying when he saw me. He was probably chased up and scared to come down. It took some coaxing but we managed to calm him and get him down. Well he's been indoors since and I'm sure I'll start letting him out again but I worried sooo much that he's in a sense 'grounded'. I do completely know the thoughts, fears, anxiety, love, all the emotions that you have been experiencing. Sometimes when I get those situations, I try to remind myself there is a higher power that is beyond our control and what we can do, and that we need to believe things happen as they should and because they're meant to be. Either to have us learn a lesson about ourselves or for some other reason we've yet to come to terms with. Please know we're strangers in this sort but you have touched my heart in many ways and there are many many others who have felt your pain. There are sooo many stories. Some times when I see lost kitty flyers, I call and get an update from the owners. One lady said her cat came home after 10 days, my neighbours came home in 2. Please have hope, I do. Take care of you. Love, Joy

January 6, 2007
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Thank you all for your ongoing support. (((( ))))

In my own way, I am at peace with this. I did place an ad in a local paper and put up flyers again (some got lost). My gut tells me kittie is at peace, whether she is on the other side, or has a new home. In my mind, she just gave me a little lick on my hand. That's cool!!

Not giving up. I read a story today about a dog that disappeared in Colorado and was found in Tennessee, AND got a free airplane ride home. Amazing things do happen in this world.

Also, yesterday, I talked with an animal control officer. He looked through his logs back to late December and there was no record of any cat in my general neighborhood being brought into the shelter for any reason.

January 6, 2007
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I am sosorry to hear of your loss. I have 3 cats becuase the third one was from a batch of kittens born in a dumpster out back of work. I took them in and found homes for them. I paid to have his mother fixed and then put her up for adoption because she was such a good mother and cat. The one I kept is named clyde. he is swwet and wish i could give him to you

January 12, 2007
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Any updates?

January 12, 2007
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lovetocrochet,

Sorry, no kittie. I put another ad in a different newspaper, stepped up my signs around the neighborhood. I got a call from someone who said she saw a gray kittie hiding in the bushes down the block. I totally searched their yard, kept going there, and still go there, but no sign.

I feel sad sometimes, more than sad at other times, but I am more in a state of acceptance that she is gone, but here in spirit. I have a trustworthy psychic friend, and she is going to do some work with me tomorrow, mainly to get some information on what happened and maybe she can tell me whether kittie is on the other side or somewhere here. This friend is rather amazing, kind of like the person on Medium TV show and I have worked with her before. She is largely accurate. Oh my, I hope my Southern California stripes are not showing too much here, but maybe some of you have had positive experiences working with people with these abilities. She learned later in life that she had these abilities and she has helped many people. I am motivated by my need of wanting to know what happened. If kittie is still on this planet, then maybe I can do something, if she is not, then I can at least have some info on what happened.

January 15, 2007
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I went to see my psychic friend and healer on Saturday. We did a session about my kittie. She is somehow about to connect with things that most of us cannot and has been doing this for years, has a lot of clients, etc.

She gave me information that my kittie is on the other side. She apparently did battle with a skunk who sprayed her, disoriented her, and kittie fought back and ended up getting herself injured in some way. Because of the scent of the skunk, and how cats rely on their sense of smell, she was unable to find her way back home. I think she might have been chased. She didn't suffer long, she was mainly confused and disoriented. She had some kind of injury to her chest. Some boy, out of good intentions, tried to catch her and chased her, scared her I guess, and she became more disoriented. It also rained the evening she disappeared, so that might have worked also against her sense of smell and finding her way home. We also did some closure work for kittie.

So, I spent most of yesterday dealing with my grief, resting, healing, crying. This explanation makes complete sense, and, as always, my psychic friend comes up with things that confirm she knows things that could be be known through whatever routes she uses to know this information, certainly not anything I ever told her.

So, there is peace in knowing she has moved to the next level of existence, how she left this planet, because this was very important to know, and that she will always be with me in spirit. I feel so blessed that kittie was with me for 13 years.

We are going to outlive our pets. Its the way it is. Doesn't make it any easer, for how does one prepare for this, but it is a reality.

January 15, 2007
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((grace))) i am glad you have closure, and so sorry for the loss off your kitty. It is good you talked to your psychic friend about your kitty. I don't even have words to expalin how I would feel if I heard this. Just know you are in my thoughts and prayers and your kitty too now in heaven.

(((camer))))

January 15, 2007
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Camer,

Thank you for your support and prayers. Much appreciated. Its nothing to "get over", its just emotionally easier today and it helps to talk about it and to know kittie is at peace.

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