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my boyfriend just found out he has an std and wont quit blaming himself. please help. ~Goddess
February 10, 2006
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hey, my boyfriend and i were talking the other night and he was saying how he had these bumps on his dick and a rash on his legs. he ended up setting up an appointment at the local doctors for wednesday at 230. on tuesday night we talked about the possibility of us not being able to have sex and/or kids someday. on wednesday i sat there patiently waiting for the call saying it was done and he would be there in 5 to let me know how it went. it was around 315 that he called and told me to come outside so he did. i knew something had went wrong from the very beginning cuz whenever he used to come over we would just sit out in the car and hang out with whoever brought him over there, this time he got out. he came up to me and looked upset so i asked him if he was ok, he said no and held me tight giving me a hug. he kept saying he was sorry, he loved me, and please dont leave him. finally i looked him in his tearstreaked face and asked him what the hell was going on. he told me that he found out he had HSV2 and i needed to go get a checkup. i just stood there. then he said he had to go and left so i went inside and up to my room. i got to the top of my stairs and lost it. i have never cried so much in my entire life. when i finally got up i went to my room and without even thinking about what i was doing, took a pretty big handful of pain relievers. i got a call from lyndsay(a friend of wade and i's, she drove him to the doctor) and she asked me if i was ok. i kept saying that i didnt know. she told me that if i needed her to she would take me to the doctor, pay for me to get tested, and if i had it she would pay for the medication. she let me know that if i needed advice or had any questions i could ask her and we got off the phone. then wade called. you could tell that he was crying big time and i am sure that you could tell with me the same. he didnt say much to me. he just kept saying how sorry he was, that it was all his fault and he had no idea about it, and that he didnt want me to leave. i have assured him way to many times to count in the past 2 days or whatever that im not leaving ever. its not the end of the world right? we can still have sex and even if i have it we can still have kids. how in the world can i reassure him of all this and make him happier? or at least not so misserable that hes punching holes in his wall, crying day and night, not getting any sleep, and not eating? i dont know what to do. please help

February 12, 2006
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Sorry to hear about your dilemma.

What is HSV2? I've never heard of that.

 

 

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February 17, 2006
10:56 pm
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its is Herpes that is below the waist not above. his outbreak is getting worse and i dont know how to help him with the pain hes in. it sucks

February 18, 2006
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Ok, got it..Thanks for the clarification..I know what herpes is..but never heard it in these terms.

Good luck to you in your decision.

Take care of yourself.

February 19, 2006
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Sorry to raise this... but this sounds like his first outbreak. I'm assuming that he didn't get it from you, Goddess. Are you two exclusive? If you think that you are, you might want to confirm that with him.

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