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My boyfirend treats me like crap!
February 23, 2006
2:50 pm
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My boyfriend can be down right mean. Why do I continue to let him hurt me so much?

February 23, 2006
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Perhaps you have not set clear and healthy boundaries?

I know for me when I have had little to no boundaries, I set a precedent and then I wonder why I get treated like crap.

Someone on this board said something quite pithy and that is; "nothing changes if nothing changes".

Well, I'm not sure if any of that helped...

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February 23, 2006
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We have these problems in our relationship. This is a follow uo to my thread. Didn't get out of bed all day yesterday.

I have these blinders on and I feel like I am just refusing to take them off because I think i can fix it.

We got into a stupid fight this morning. We both use myspace.com to chat with friend. There is a section under your profile that ask, single,married, divorced or in a relationship. For awhile my bf's said divorced and now it says single! I asked him why and he said because I am.

Also I caught him calling someone from on my phone call log....

February 23, 2006
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Feeling lost,

Hi there well it doesn't sound like things are going so good. I totally understand what you mean by having blinders on. Like you know everything that is happening but because we can't do anything to fix it we just go along with it. Well like Lotus said above nothing changes if nothing changes and girlfriend you need to make some changes yourself first. I know it is hard to do but if you want something different to happen you have to change something to make it happen.

I am slowly making changes myself although I wish things were moving faster I just know that I can't handle anything fast. Tonight though i have to reinforce with my bf that we can no longer be a couple and that we can only be friends...cuz I need to start moving on with my life and as long as i call him my bf im going to stay standing still.

Hang in there though girl!!

February 23, 2006
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hi need to join you i had the most terrible weekend he treated me like crap,it was his birthday and i got him a psp well,i swear he was the most verbally abusive he could be all weekend.i feel used he knew i was getting him the psp.since he went back home he has done everthing to cause a row with me.last night he said he wouldnt be able to email me cause he was watching fooball so i said why cant you when its finished,he didnt reply so i said ive had enough of his sh,, and he hasnt botherd with me since so he got his gift and i feel really used i feel really hurt how could he be like this too me GT

February 24, 2006
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GT,

Well I am sorry to hear that you had a bad weekend and this dude doesn't sound like he is worthy of any of your time. Especially after you got him something nice like that. You deserve better...try to be postive and realize that you can do so much better than that bum. You should be with a guy that would be overly greatful and thankful for what you did for him and return the kindness...not get pissy with you.

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February 24, 2006
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HI butterfly yer i know what a ####### i have been really working hard on myself lately and all the people around me have noticed i swear he is trying to do some mind stuff and drag me back to were i was but i have news for him it aint gonna happen,,,,,,,thanks for your support GT

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