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my best friend encounters my ex-ex--2shy
June 16, 2007
10:34 am
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Well...long story short, my ex-ex was a Moroccan guy who I dated for 3 years. He took my virginity, bought me a ring, had me by him things and give him money. The last time we spoke was 3 years ago when he claimed that his brother passed away and he had to go back to Morocco to attend his funeral. I ordered and paid for a limo to take him to the airport. He called me from the airport, told me he loved me and that he would call me twice a week. He was suppose to be gone for about 3 weeks. I never heard from him again. I never tried to contact him. I learned that he got married to someone back from his country. The whole time he was with me he was merely using me...my good heart and my generosity.

My best friend (whom he really disliked) saw him yesterday on the street. Actually, he recognized her and stopped to say hi to her. She was really surprised to see him. He acted like they were good old friends. He asked about me. She told him that I am doing really well. She also told him that what he did to me was really terrible. That if it were her she would have tracked him down and kicked his ass. Then he just touched her arm and put on a really sad expression on his face and told her that if she knew his circumstances she would be really sympathetic to him. He told her that I was the best woman he had been with.

I feel really upset now because I feel like he got good closure. That he must feel that his BS words would justify all his evil intents towards me. That I must think of him as this great guy. My friend didn't tell him that I was seeing my current bf (the gambler) when he asked her if there was a man in my life. She is hoping that he will contact me, so that I can have my chance to tell him how rotten he really is.

It really bothers me that he walked away from her probably feeling like he just won his evil game. I really hope that he does contact me so that I can tell him that he is the worst human being I ever met and to stay completely away from me. I wouldn't give him the opportunity to say two words to me. I am just praying that he will contact me.

June 16, 2007
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Hi 2shy,

I was confused by your thread. I don't understand why you would want to ever see this man again after the hurtful way that he treated you. And why do you feel bad that he got "good closure"? He is a horrible individual who shamefully used you and treated you like garbage. Move past this. He is not worth an nanosecond of your time or energy. You have moved on.

If I were in your shoes, I would have been praying that he doesn't contact me. Why bring that pain back? He is beyond being a loser. He is a poor excuse for a human being.

Sad

June 16, 2007
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Sad, I totally agree with you. I guess I felt that since I never tried to contact him since he left to Morocco (he was gone for less than a month) that the no contact with him would show him how worthless he is to me. I went through a painful period but once I moved passed that I felt stronger and I never gave him a second thought. It just bothers me that he had the courage to chum up with my friend yesterday....he could have just walked passed her without stopping her. She didn't even recognize him. It bothers me that he had praised me and painted himself to be the victim in which circumstances prevented him to be with me. I would love to opportunity to tell him how horrible he really is. I wouldn't go out of my way to find him and tell him....but if he contacted me.....That is why I would want him to contact me so that I could tell him exactly how I feel about him.

June 16, 2007
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Hi 2shy,

Please don't use the word "courage" to describe his actions. He is anything but courageous. I feel that he had some NERVE talking to your friend after what he did to you. It shows you that he is a sociopath without a conscience. He knew what he was doing. He knew if he told her something that it would get back to you. He is NOT stupid. He wants to worm his way back into your life to most likely, use you some more. Please don't fall for his trap. When I read your thread, I felt outrage. He is simply despicable. Again, I will repeat, please do not give him any of your most valuable time. You wasted three years of your life with him. And I am so sorry about that. But, please be strong and move on.

SAD

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