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My Best Friend and true love is gay
September 30, 2001
9:24 am
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Hi - I have a problem. Ok my best friend who I've known only for 2 years recently told me that he is gay. I have been in love with him for over a year now, we went out about a year ago but broke up because of depression issues. Well lately we have gotten really close again, and now that I know that he is gay, it changes everything. See I always thought that eventually we'd be back together as a couple and we'd get married or something like that. I have nothing wrong with the fact that he is gay, I mean I have nothing wrong with homosexuals. This just breaks my heart and eventhough it's brought us closer, I know that in the end it'll tear us apart. My best friend who is gay - well he seems to want to break up me and my boyfriend of over 5 months. I don't want this to happen because I love my boyfriend so much - but somehow I'm stuck inbetween them - even though there is one that I know I can never have. ahh - anyone gone though this before? anyone have any advice? please

September 30, 2001
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First he is not your best friend if he wants to break you and your new boy friend up. And yes I have been all through wanting someone you can't have. It is not a good feeling but hell I have so much experience at it I am almost getting good at it.
The advice I have for you is get to the point were you can accept he is gay and he will never be yours. Think really hard about this! Do you really want to compeat with other guys? I would hate that if I were you. I wish you the best!!!!!

October 1, 2001
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Watch the movie the object of my affection...i feel it might help you in some way.

October 1, 2001
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gay men are unavailable to straight women....it is a challenge you will never accomplish

October 2, 2001
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Get over the romance, or changing him,and be greatful that you have a friend, and accept him for what he is, just a fiend, its really kinda cool to have male gay friends, a rare breed. You will always have honesty with your weight, makeup, hair, nails and cooking. So, you don't always get what you want but get what you need.

October 2, 2001
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You know gay women or pretty cool too!!

October 3, 2001
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Just to let you all know - one of the main reasons why him being gay makes me so sad is because he is always telling me how much he loves me and how upset he is that he is gay because he wants to be with me - I totally accept him for who he is and everything - it's just so hard I guess - but yea - thanx 4 the responses

October 3, 2001
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wen u r gay u dont know it sometimes for years but then u realise it in a second, but i may take a while for you to come to terms with it!

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