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move on......but how!
August 13, 2005
11:46 am
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been feeling strong all week about starting anew and binning the ten years of off/on relationship but theres only so much i can do to keep busy and keep positive to look to the future and break the cycle of needing him (him who only seems to call when there is nothing better to do)but i get so desperatly lonley without him i feel so let down by his behavior and cant see a way out of this i know if he calls right now i will fall back into the habit of seeing him although i know theres no future and i really need to move on but how?

August 13, 2005
11:54 am
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Keep your feelings strong.

As one of the friends here told me.. dont just think of today or tomorrow.. think of the time ahead and if you know there is not happiness there with him... you should know.. an exchange for happiness now will not bring happiness in your future!

Stay strong!!

Keep on writing messages here! people will respond to you to stay strong to keep away as well, if that is what you want!


August 13, 2005
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I feel for you honey. Moving on is such a big thing to do. But if you take baby steps it is easier. For one if you are serious about ending it once and for all then absolutely no contact between either of you. Ignore his calls and delete him from your address book. Start looking at yourself to rediscover who you are. What are your hobbies, interests, talents. How about finding something new to do? Take on a new interest. This way you are sure to put yourself into a new circle of friends. Let me tell you from experience one of the best ego boosters...join a dating service online. You don't have to go out, just start talking to men again and feel validated. It really has done wonders for me. I've hooked up with a guy the past week who actually has been going through the same thing as me. Neither of us are looking for a relationship...just a friend to go do things with. No strings attached, no romantic liason...etc...

Baby steps...

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