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money problems
September 10, 2000
6:44 pm
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I love my husband but I feel I can not continue living in the situation I am.
He spends money without thinking or checking if the money is available and this makes us be overdraft at the bank.
Right now he is oversees and the only way I found out of his spending is when I receive the checks cleared from the bank or I receive a call telling me I am overdraft. He has been oversees for 7 months and every month we argue for the same reason. He promises to change but the next month it is the same situation. I ask what is the money for and I never get an answer. I am frustrated, worry about our future and my family's. I just feel I do not want to be in debt for the rest of my life. I feel my kids deserve a better future.
What do you think I should do?

September 10, 2000
11:36 pm
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When is he due back?

Send him copies of the overdrafts and the bank statements.

See if the bank you are with offers a "line of crdit" of some other method to cover the overdrafts.

If all else fails close the account.

September 12, 2000
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Get separate checking accounts. That way he'll be ruining his credit without involving you.

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