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Molly from Listen
August 3, 2001
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I'm not preying on anyone - especially Molly.

The real truth is, I posted the alcoholic question for a friend of mine - didn't want to deceive anyone - but she reads may reading these posts!

i didn't want her to see and know I was trying to get help for her.

August 3, 2001
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Plus, I have posted here before - under another name. It just didn't feel like me anymore. I don't get off on deceiving people.

I am a good person and am looking for help just like most everyone else!

August 3, 2001
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Listen....

And I wrote my thread just to warn people in general about this sort of thing. I've seen alot of bad stuff other places on the web. I hardly ever come here and read any more, so I have no clue what's up and what's not here.

It's just wise for us all to be wary, especially when people are hurting and vulnerable.

The web is an elusive place and we all have to bear that in mind at all times.

August 3, 2001
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True - people can be present under any disguise...

August 3, 2001
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Listen,
Unfortunately, and fortunately, I don't really look for the negative things. I am the one that usually tells people to change from a negative tag, to a more positive tag, you must know how I feel about labels.So, if you are who I think you are or have been, I celebrate your new name with you.
I admit to having lost a few brain cells over the last few decades, however when I saw one post, and then looked at another post, I sorta made me want to go hmmmmmmm.
I am one of those people that when you meet me,You, immediately know I can't lie to save my life, so I always trample my way through the truth, because the eyes tell everything, here we cant see the eyes.
I so love these threads, I get to give, keep in touch with counseling, and what I receive is beyond ones imagination. its like going to the local pub, where you find a friend, make a friend, and go home feeling good.
I think its great that you posted the question for a friend, but in the future for the sake of clarity,if I may be so bould as to suggest, say, my friend yada yada yada, what do you think group. Just a suggestion, and it makes things clear. There aren't many rules to this thread, thank goodness, i rebel against authority.
🙂 I think of this as a safe place, and want it to be one, as I have referred so many people to this site, even my sis, who I disclosed my tag to. i really don't think you consider me prey, that was so far from my thoughts, but just like any group, it needs to be honest, as well as sometimes confrontational, god knows i have been confronted here, and am so far from perfect, and that is where my concearn was, I had confusion. Ladeska, with her unending wisdom, did make some very good points about life as well as these threads in general in her new thread. I will give of my self 100% to anyone that needs help, that I think I can help, and hopefully create clarity, and another friend.
My time is more restricted, thus, if this isn't real, I can't afford to spend it here the way I have grown accoustomed or addicted to . I am certain that you can comprehend where I was comming from. We tell newbies that it is safe, and to be open, I hope that remains the case.
I am sorry if you felt threatned, or backed into a corner, and your explanitation makes sense. i like your new name, and i am greatful for your participation, not that I have any connection, or status,with all about counseling,(maybe some day) but appreciate the individuality of each and every response. So, I guess at this point, Molly says hey, if your in recovery, did the relapse serve you, or if not in recovery, there is nothing like a glass of wine and a smoke. if your relations with the man that you didn't trust is great, yahoo, if you are uncomfortable with a move of his across country, well let it go, and take care of you, love will prove the test of time and distance, and as far as your friend, well you know now, what to tell her.
Love and light to you and all, I just need to be sure I am not wasting my time or any one elses, and no one likes to look like a fool.
Bless you for responding so openly.

August 3, 2001
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Truth of spirit, clarity of mind. Thank you for understanding...

You know your advice has served me well in the past. I have just gotten to the point of letting go of his moving. If it works between us, then it does. If it turns out to not work, then I can move on. I feel that I can do it either way. That's a good thing. Your comments just serve to help me recognize a good and safe path.

With us all out here sheding our skins, opening up, it feels safe and - yes like a favorite pub when you find someone to talk to.

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