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Molested by Dad, Mom Still Leaves Sisters Alone With Him
July 28, 2005
8:10 pm
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This is my first time posting here and I'm really glad that I found this site. It's been a long time coming.
Well to keep this story short let me condense: I was sexually molested by my biological dad from 6-8 years old (or so I've been told, I think it started before then). I told my parents I wanted them to be together, I didn't understand until I was grown how serious the situation was, and now I'm the "hateful child." So, my parents fought the courts to stay together and they won. They were separated for a year and a half while they were battling the court system - in that year and a half my dad got saved, ie, became a Christian - well, it seems like I'm the only one who can see his hypocrosy. No he hasn't offended again (to my knowledge) but he's still angry, critical, and every time I ask to talk about the past he shuts down, tells me I don't really forgive him or I'm just trying to bring up the past again, and how dare I. Well my mom still leaves my sisters alone with him. This scares the hell out of me. Not only because of the obvious, but also because he told her that if she didn't "trust" him that he would leave her, after that she started leaving them with him again alone. Does anyone have any statistics of how often men repeat this? My youngest sister is 7 and my other at-home sister is 15, so I don't worry about her. I guess I don't REALLY think he'd do it again, but I don't understand my mom. Should I butt out?

July 28, 2005
8:17 pm
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I do not think you should but out!!! I wish someone would have cared enough about me to but in when I was a kid maybe my life would have been different. From what I know of the statistics ususally before a molestor is caught they have molested seven other kids. I am sure you weren't the first or the last.

I know this is a very touchy subject, but like you I have been on the bad end of it, and i am stilling living the burden of it. I know what its like when your family stands behind the molestor.

You have to trust your gut. In my family I think other family members where molested but I still got put their. People are naive and stupid and in denial. Maybe if he were castrated he would be safe to be around. I don't trust anyone who has ever done this and I would never leave a child boy or girl with them.

I hope y our father was prosecuted.

Good Luck, I will say a prayer for you and trust your gut.

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