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“MN to Michigan... Do you read me?!”
October 16, 2006
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Hello (((( Mich )))) I have a quick minute here…Read on your thread you are having a downer for a day : (

If you are up to it and want to chat later, and I’ll be back on later tonight around 9pm central time. I’ll order pizza and we can hang and chit-chat : )…. Is its rainy in Mich too?

Your Midwest neighbor and cyber friend : )

LL

October 16, 2006
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Weather sucks here. I am so depressed it isn'e even funny. All I can do is cry. That is all I have done for days. And I don't feel good which isn't helping....I just feel like being around here is a bad thing right now. I just want to be able to talk to someone and just be heard. No matter what I say even around here right now, I feel like I am being torn apart, and I hate it. Like I said in my other thread, I am about at the end of my rope, I think there is about enough left to hang myself with. Thanks for caring LL, I appreciate you so. My heart is literally hurting, and I feel useless, worthless, and nothing positive right now. I can't deal with it. That's all. I so appreciate you asking. You are so sweet.

Love you,
Scared

October 16, 2006
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can you chat later?

October 16, 2006
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or do you want to chat later? I'm pretty good at listening...actually...I should say I'm working on my listening skills cause I used to really suck at it : ) So if you want to be heard, I'll listen and practice my skills!! (Now that doesn't mean I'll just sit here and type nothing either!!)

October 16, 2006
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That is fine, I will try my hardest to get back here later. Night time around here is sometimes a little hard, when my husband is home. I will try though. I would love to talk to you. A 2 way conversation would be good. I don't need 25 people involved. Does that make sense? The more people that are involved sometimes I think the more confusing it gets because the conversation goes so many directions. I don't expect you to not respond...That is hard too. I want someone to talk to. And I want it to go 2 ways. I just can't handle 25 ways right now. I am confused enough.

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October 16, 2006
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If it doesn't work for you tonight after 9, pick a time for the morning (Tuesday)...I'm totally open.

October 16, 2006
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hey mich and LL,
came back to join in, but mich, I do understand the small group conversation. P&L and I used to do it a lot; yes it is less confusing.

I am just going through something and have not slept well at all the last 3 nights. Only getting by on 3-4 hours a sleep, then teaching during the day...I do have major trust, abandonment, and relationship issues that are bringing me down.
It is just that I connect with a few of you here and you two are definitely part of that small group.

Gosh, I think I am rambling...I am so tired, but can't sleep. Going to run some errands, but will check back later.

Anyway, just need to say that I won't interrrupt you guys, but if I need to talk, maybe I will start a thread. Mich, been thinking about you a lot today...(((MICH)))and (((LL)))

October 16, 2006
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I will do my best to make it tonight, but if it doesn't work that way, can we shoot for around 10 EST in the morning. I think that would be 9 for you. Is that too early? Or would that work?

October 16, 2006
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GG,

You are wonderful, and one that I can handle, I just don't want a huge conversation. The three of us do good together. Like I said, it just seems like there are 100 25 way conversations going, and I get so confused, and right now I need smaller. Does that make sense? It isn't that I can't handle any other one person in particular, I am not saying that either. I really care about the people here. A lot. You are ok, and I am ok with that. I can't respond for LL, but that is my opinion. I am sorry that you are having a crappy time right now too. Just know that I am thinking about you and I care about you a lot. I will always be here for you to talk to.

With Love Always...
Scared

October 16, 2006
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Mich that would work for me in the morning. Should we plan on that instead??

And GG you would be a wonderful addition to any chat time : ) ... I wished that last night I would have had more time to chat with you as well as being able to really *be there*- that is the exact skill I need to work on.

October 16, 2006
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thanks,mich, it was hard for me to write what I did, but somehow felt that it was okay with you.

Gotta go run those errands and thanks a lot for your response. When I feel like this, I hate being alone and I am alone a lot now.

I should be able to pop in tonight, but if it happens, it happens. I do understand about the small group thing. It is easier to stick with a topic that way too. Love you girl..GG

October 16, 2006
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LL, will you be here tonight?

October 16, 2006
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I will try for tonight, but tomorrow may be better...GG, will you be around at all in the morning too? Or just tonight?

October 16, 2006
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Mich, you two definitely get together in the a.m./the evenings and nights are better for me.

Like I said, if it happens it happens. I will check in later...

Take care...GG

October 16, 2006
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LL,

I will try to be back tonight, if I am not, I will plan on seeing you in the am. I really could use someone to talk to right now. Not like this minute, and my husband should be home anytime, but we will see. I will talk to you later. Thanks.

Love you both girls...

Scared

October 16, 2006
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I can chat in the am with no problem, and also be on tonight too. Right now I have my exH's 5 yr old son til about 8 or 9 - he wants me to make pancakes for supper and of course giving him lots of loving - got to read the books, play on the computer (mickeymouse.com) and can't forget listening to Mama LL's music and dancing too!! Did I tell you two that MY youngest is 17!!! Oh well, the little guy keeps me young and BUSY : )

I'll check back in a bit girls.

October 16, 2006
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Thanks LL.

Yes, those little ones will keep you busy. I do know that. I wish that mine were making me feel young. I don't think that it is them though making me feel old. I think that it is just stress. But on a positive note, my 3 year old has pooped in the potty twice in the last couple of days and pee'd several times. That makes me happy. What I wouldn't give to only have one in diapers....Yeah...

Scared

Talk to you soon. Again, thank you so much for being there for me right now in my time of need, including needing it to be a small group conversation. I am glad that you are willing and understand what I am saying....

October 16, 2006
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is anyone around?

October 16, 2006
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well, I will check back later if I can't sleep...

October 16, 2006
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Hi GG ...I hope that you are able to get some sleep tonight. I will be online for awhile yet tonight

October 17, 2006
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well, iam up can't sleep

October 17, 2006
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oh GG hon, you can't sleep : (

October 17, 2006
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NOPE

October 17, 2006
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was talking to army on rw thread, but they don't answer now???

October 17, 2006
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LL, have you noticed how much army is trying? I am so proud!!!

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