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MJ, you deserve this...
September 29, 2003
2:58 am
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Dear MJ,

I apologize for all the confusion that took place a while back. I most especially apologize for my smart-ass response to your expression of anger and pain. It was cruel, thoughtless, and you are deserving of far better treatment as you have always been kind to me in this place.

Something about myself that I am working to come to terms with is my tendency to make light of situations where I feel "off balance", hurt, or intimidated. Also, when I referred to your having to "get in line with all the others who are trying to beat you to the punch", what I meant was that I am often an abrasive bitch. As a result, the words you spoke are not unfamiliar to me. This comment I made was intended to reference that fact, but I did not communicate clearly and this is also another problem I'm trying to correct.

Regardless of what I meant, it was wrong of me to react to you the way I did and I apologize from the bottom of my heart for making a bad situation worse for you.

I don't expect your forgiveness, but you do have a right to expect an apology from me. Please do not feel an undue obligation to respond.

Respectfully,

Arwen

September 29, 2003
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Hi Arwen,
So glad to see you back 🙂
I am sorry I let my reactions fly as well on this one.

We both have our own issues and I am hoping that we can just put this behind us and continue be supportive to all that need it.

I admire you for apologizing.
I wasn't even sure and am still not to who was writing that day but I want to say that I am sorry for my behavior. Taken out of the context of what was happening.....I owe you an apology. Hope that we can be friends again and use this as a learning experience in a positive way.

September 29, 2003
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MJ,

I don't know that this will help at all, but I didn't post anything on the "Arwen" thread. It was started by someone else. When I felt like I needed to say something, I did create a new nick-name in order to do it, but the name I chose was "ArwenUndomiel" because I wanted to be sure that everyone knew it was me doing the writing there, not someone else. I would not chose a name that didn't include "Arwen"--those days are behind me...

Thank you for your grace in reading and responding to these words.

Love,

Arwen

September 29, 2003
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Hi Arwen,
I didn't know what was going on and I feel like I really over-reacted towards you knowing this. I am really truly sorry for saying those words now. I thought that everyone posting under those names was all one person...You.

Thank You for making this clearer.

Next time, I think I will try to walk away and cool off and be more thoughtful before I react.

Sorry...Hopefully you can understand that I felt like you were mocking me with your apology to everyone. GEEZ...Sorry for the total misunderstanding....

September 30, 2003
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My dear MJ,

Hon, you do NOT owe me an apology!!! If the situation had been reversed, there's no telling what I would have said!!! Seriously! You have nothing to feel bad about! You were hurt, angry, confused, and totally knocked off balance. If I were you, I would have told me "Fuck You!" and a whole lot more!!!

This was just a brief incident of insanity. Maybe its sole purpose was to bring you and I together in a more personal and trusting way. If that's the case, then I'll be glad of it!

I did not feel angry, hurt, or offended by your words. I only felt disappointed in myself, and that was right!

Maybe instead of a 'fuck you' we could just kiss and make up--and I swear I'm NOT coming on to you...

Love,

Arwen

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