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**missing you, my friend GG...**
May 25, 2007
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May 25, 2007
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Thanks GG... I am glad that you are not having headaches!! That is great news.. I hope that you go to your follow-up appointment because it is important...

Yes, I have set new boundaries with JC.. This potential girlfriend is someone who is extremely controlling and jealous.. So I told JC that the way in which we are friends is going to change.. She will not be staying at this house anymore which I am glad that I have finally set that boundary.. I told her that her potential girlfriend is extremely jealous now (even when they are friends) and she would only become worse.. For instance, her friend knew what time JC was at my house because she had driven by and seen her car parked in front of the house.. I just do not need this type of behavior around me.. It was bad when JC would do it, now I do not need her friend doing the same thing...

Now is she is spending more time with this girl so that also takes the load off of her relying on ME to talk with so the numerous daily phone calls and text messages have now dimmed..

I do wish that she is happy. I told her that I am sorry that I cannot be with her.. I know that it hurts her. However, a lot had happened between us.. and no matter what, it had an affect on me.. My feelings changed and it had nothing to do with my feelings for PS....

I just feel like the weight of the world was lifted!!

I feel so much better....

love ya--

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May 27, 2007
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Just wondering how everyone is doing?

The problem JC is having is the woman that she wants to be more involved with is married... they are trying to figure out a plan for which they can talk more; since they were involved in the past, the husband suspects and is not in favor of them having even a friendship..

Anyway, I have noticed in the last few days, that since this woman is not as available to JC, then she gets clingy again with me.. She begs and pleads for me to give her another chance.. she said that if we are friends, then why is it that I do not hang out with her? She said that is what friends do...

I have been consistent. I told her last week that I was busy all weekend.

All I can do is stick to my personal boundaries.. and keep No Contact as much as it is possible..

When I am not in contact with JC I can already see that I am not feeling dragged down..

I hope all is well with you all....

love,
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