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missing her so much today
October 19, 2007
1:17 pm
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thenerdyurbanite
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having a rough day today, not sure what exactly is sparking it, but i miss my ex so bad today. I miss the life we used to have. I miss talking to her everyday, seeing her, kissing her, just knowing she was there. These memories haunt me to that point that i want to fight for her back and i dont know why. she hurt me and she lied to me and we had a very unhealthy relationship...but i just long for her...i would do anything to have her back and for us to work it out. she reached out to a mutual friend and told her that she missed me but was convinced this was for the best. how could us not being together be for the best?????

October 19, 2007
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Oh honey, my heart is breaking for you. I really wish I could put my arms around you and give you a big hug and tell you everything will be OK but I can't. Our hearts can't help who we love. I am still trying to heal my heart. Take care of yours. Do something special for yourself. Maybe a pot of tea? That is what I am doing right now while listening to an inspirational audio stream on line from a "coaching" company I signed up with.

Bitsy

October 19, 2007
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hey Bitsy,
thanks for responding, I'd love to just crawl into my bed right now and watch a movie and completely envelop myself in someone elses drama, but im at work so the thread has me hanging on 🙂 Her birthday is coming up, its been weighing on me, I wish nothing more than to spend it with her. Shes a singer in a band and she has huge gigs this weekend and Id do anything to go to them. I loved listening to her sing...she has an amazing voice...gave me butterflies every time and I've seen her perform hundreds upon hundreds of times over three years. I'm so broken over her. I miss her more than i ever knew i could miss anyone.

October 19, 2007
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oooohhhh (((thenerdy))) I feel for you, and I wish I could say or do something to change the way you feel, but I can't.

Maybe if you go home tonite, crawl under the covers and watch a good movie, it may help, then again it may make you sad cuz you miss her.

You even mentioned on this first post that she hurt and lied to you, well that is not good, and yes, unhealthy. Most likely you are just missing the good parts about her.

So "take cover" under the covers tonite, and try your hardest to think about what YOU want to do, and what you want in life, besides her.....cuz she seems to have her mind set on just being a friend.

And come back and keep posting, it helps!!!!

October 19, 2007
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Hey Nerdy,

I had itbad before too. Seems like your heart is just dying, chest feels like a big empty cavity. Loss hurts physically. At least mine did. Then there's the obsessive thinking, where is she, what is she doing, does she miss me, does she love me, what could I have done different, what can I say to get her back...blahblahblah!!!

I don't really know what to tell you to make you feel better, because i knowthat when i was in that state, NOTHING made me feel better. I was like raw hamburger ground up in a meat grinder.

But it does get better. It gets easier. It takes a LONGLONG time.

Why don't you try talking it out here, where it is safe and anonymous. Write her letters, thats what I used to do. Tell how hurtyou are, how angry, how lost, how confused...just spill it, believe me,it is better out than in, I tell ya.

Good luck to you. If anything, just know you are not alone. I feel your pain man.

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