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Mich calling the Afghan sisters......
November 6, 2006
10:55 pm
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MICH--

I have listened to what you have been

dealing with at home lately and I just

want you to know that with all that

has been going on you have been such

a stong, loving, caring, mother

and wife... and you are an

inspiration... to me ...

November 6, 2006
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If I could explain to you the truth in how bad I want to die, I think that it would make you very sad. I am very unhappy, and I hate telling you guys that. I wake up wanting to die and go to sleep wanting to die...I don't want to live like this anymore. the pain is more than I can handle. And more than you guys should have to handle...If I knew how to fix it I would..but I don't know how..I just try to make myself feel better by being there for you guys, and I feel like I have failed there...

November 6, 2006
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Mandy- just like you told GG- ourselves are our first priorty. And as we do that we are going to help the next.

And...with the above in mind...if someone feels uncomfortable with another saying anything, we need to express that- part of taking care of ourselves. Ex...you pick up on something within me, you ask me about me, and I tell you to drop it or whatever ( more like I am not ready to talk about it). However if I don't say anything then it can be assumed I am fine with it. Does that make sense?

Now Mich- you have someone new to this site who is in need of your hospitality as well as your understanding & compassion. I have seen on occasion on the boards, not always, but when others talk about sexual abuse, not all are comfortable with discussing it. Perhaps it is because a person can't relate, or perhaps because the person (and their could be many more among us here) hasn't never told anyone before...Mich this is important stuff here- you know what living with the *secret* has done to you- look at GG too. You're needed here- and even if you don't feel strong enough to be any sort of leader, just your presence, your willingness to talk is not only helping you but helping others.

November 6, 2006
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Yes LL, it made ten cents, and I am giving you fifteen cents for the confusion...

November 6, 2006
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Mich that feeling of wanting to die ... someday will leave you.

Tell me honestly here...at any time during these last few weeks, have you had even a small moment of feeling hope and thankful that you are still here (in the world)?

November 6, 2006
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I agree...LL

I just went over to the other thread

and you were so helpful with someone

who is new here right now... and talked

to her about cutting...

You did that tonight MICH

November 6, 2006
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Hello, everyone. I just thought I would drop in to say a friendly hello. ScaredinMichigan has replyed to me on my thread and I hope I am not interrupting ya'll. I can relate to what I've read on the other threads and feel like we share things in common. I wish ya'll well.

November 6, 2006
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ok , it could be because I'm tired..but please explain to your bright big sis here what you meant about the cents stuff..

November 6, 2006
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Welcome (((Friendma))) : )

November 6, 2006
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WELCOME FRIENDMA

November 6, 2006
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Thank You, Lovinlife. I appreciate the Welcome.

November 6, 2006
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Friendma-
I told you on your other thread to sweetie, you are always welcome around here...ALWAYS. No promises though on what you might walk in on. But you are always welcome to chat with us.

LL, your one whole thing where you asked if you made sense, I got very confused...

November 6, 2006
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WOW!! I was just saying that MICh

had welcomed FRIENDMA at the other

thread ... and just after I posted

FRIENDMA is now here.... thanks

to MICH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

November 6, 2006
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Thank You needtoheal. I appreciate the Welcome.

November 6, 2006
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Need you are a smarty pants...I love you.

November 6, 2006
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yes, Friendma there are some very special and beautiful people here that can relate to your pain and your story. You could never interuppt.

MICH!! You are going to make me cry, no not make me, I am crying- don't you get it? Can't you see here what I see? And if you can't then, well, I will ah, get the bonker thing for the other thread...

November 6, 2006
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I am missing something all together now. LL, spit it out...

November 6, 2006
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OH NO.. it's BONKING TIME

November 6, 2006
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Thank You ScaredinMichigan. I feel very welcome in this thread and without you I would not of found the courage to write anything. You are a very special person and you have a special pupose in life. You took the time to extend yourself to me, and I needed that. God Bless You.

November 6, 2006
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I love you too MICH

I really do

November 6, 2006
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Frienma-

I needed that. Thank you VERY much..

November 6, 2006
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I know you do Need and I love you too. I apologe for this HUGELY insecre moment in my life today. I hope that you will all for give me...

November 6, 2006
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Mich you are needed in this world- and you are needed right here. It is because of your courage and your desire to want to heal (once ya find the way) that others can and have found the courage to share their story...so that they too can start the healing process.

Now I better quit while I am ahead as I don't know if you know this about me yet, but my brain shuts down real bad after 10pm.

November 6, 2006
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MICH-----

already... see your what your care

and your compassion does...

it welcomes others

and FRIENDMA is here

all to you sweetheart

November 6, 2006
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Do you want to go to bed LL? Please be honest...I can talk to you tomorrow if you want...Are you going to be around at all?

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