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August 12, 2007
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rachaelhale
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I have been with my boyfriend for 1year and he has a whole bunch of girls on his phone, one girl I talked to supposably his girlfriend of 4 years ago and she said she has not talked to him but I called her from his phome. I have two childrn, should I even bother, this girl called back and said I have know idea what you are talking about

August 12, 2007
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First I will ask has he done anything to betray your trust?

August 12, 2007
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Are the kids his?

August 12, 2007
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They are not his kids, they are 13 and 12 and I do no want to hurt them, they are my life but I want to give them a good life. I love my boyfriend more than anything but my children are more important and he obviously has other girld involved in his life but I had a boyfriend that commmitted suicide and want to know what to do. Should I Begin a new relationship when my kids are getting over another?

August 12, 2007
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Rachaelhale,

The best thing you can do for your kids is to allow them to see you in a healthy situation. Take care of yourself, and you will in turn be able to take care of them. I don't know enough about your boyfriend, but if you allow your children to see you be abused, lied to, cheated on... this will have a negative effect on their lives now and in the future.

Find out what is going on with this guy. It doesn't sound like you trust him. No matter what the facts are- that alone is not good. Maybe these are work contacts? What is his track record?

-ella

August 12, 2007
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Rachaelhale - I agree with Mzrella. And since you mentioned that your kids are still getting over your boyfriend who committed suicide, I wonder if YOU are over him. I don't know the circumstances of his death, and I've never been through that, but I imagine it could be very traumatic.

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August 12, 2007
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I was wondering does he live with you & your kids if not that would be better you can deal with him easer!
But if so it mabe harder to let go!
But like you said your kids need you & you all went thru a real big deal with the death of a loved one!
this takes a long time & you & the kids need time to grive & deal!
A new boy friend with issues may not be healthy for you or your kids!
If you feel it's not good for whatever reson then it is not good for them either!
Years ago I broke it off with a man that loved my son & he kept in contact with him until I married & left the area! It was not his child!
The same with a dear friend.... he x practly raised her daughters he was not there BIO/Dad .... After she left them & there where together 10+ years the girl still have a der Fatherlike feel for this guy & the girls are now in there 20's they still visit there steplike dad now & then! SO ............
Do what's best Be true to yourself!
Wasabi

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