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MEN: What would you think of a singing apology?
February 28, 2006
12:00 pm
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Ok if you've read my thread "after the fall" then you understand what's happening here. People have told me I should wait. He's asked me to give him some space and time. How long should I wait?

I was thinking of sending a singing apology (quartet) to him in another week. Would this make you feel better toward me?

February 28, 2006
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I'm not a man, so my opinion might not be what you're looking for, but I personally would find any sort of "over the top" message embarrassing. I tend to be a more low-key kind of person. More "obvious" displays of affection (i.e. balloons, candy, flowers) don't feel genuine to me.

Besides, an apology means much more to me coming from the person rather than through a paid service from a stranger.

February 28, 2006
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Hmmm ok. Not flowers either? I mean he said to give him some time. It's a way of testing the waters without directly contacting him.

February 28, 2006
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Artist! Come on girl, you know better than this!

February 28, 2006
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Artist,

I have to agree with ginger. I would also think that a singing apology or anything like that would be over the top and embarrassing.

I tend to think that when someone, male or female, asks for time, we should give to them. Let him contact you. If you don't contact him, he may respect you for it and find he wants to give it another chance. If he doesn't contact you, well I guess you have your answer there too.

I would suggest not doing anything, and certainly nothing that would cost you your dignity (which is how he may see it)

Lolli

February 28, 2006
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Hmmm... ok.

I'm such a schmuck.

February 28, 2006
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Nawww, you're not a schmuck. Totally agree with all of the above. Besides, what are you apologizing for?

February 28, 2006
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No, not a schmuck! Be nice to yourself, OK? You're hurting and wanting the pain to stop. For now, try to find a different way to ease the pain if you can.

Sign up for a massage today?

February 28, 2006
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You are not a schmuck. You are human. You are hurt and you want answers which you are entitled to.

But, sometimes we have our answers and we just don't want to see them

I just think that you need to concentrate on you right now and not do anything that will make you feel bad about yourself or beat yourself up for later.

Sometimes the best decision is no decision. Do nothing.

Lolli

February 28, 2006
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Grrrrr..... someone tie my hands! No... because I'll trying dialing the phone with my nose. So. ok. That's it. Nothing to do.

February 28, 2006
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Atta girl, ((( artist.)))

If you need to sing an apology or just want to sing anything for that matter....I'm all ears.

lolli

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