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Men are all cheaters. HAH.
March 17, 2005
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:p

I am being aggressive I suppose. I can be so direct that I am off-putting sometimes. Like this morning when I was like, um, yeah, get your clothes on buddy this ain't happening again.

😀 hah!

March 17, 2005
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You know what? You're down right rude. I would hope you'd learn a lesson from your mistake but people with bad attitudes like you unfortunately, never do. You just complain how hard done by you are and whine on and on about how ALL men cheat and how they SUCK. Its women like YOU who give women like US a bad name. Grow up, shut up and get a life. A decent one at that!

March 17, 2005
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What just happened here?

March 17, 2005
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Cici - I hear you going back and forth - like it bothers you and then it doesn't. Sounds like you're still questioning whether it's right or wrong. Once you decide, I think you'll find peace and know the right thing to do for yourself.

March 17, 2005
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Take Heart - Are u ok? why is this making you so angry?

March 17, 2005
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Nah I'm not bothered. I felt like people were getting on me for having casual sex, like I should save myself...for what? Crappy sex? Sexual frustration?

Take heart - kindly Take Yourself off my thread. 🙂

March 17, 2005
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Aaaanyways I win because I've been on this site longer (since 1999). neener neener.

People on this site take themselves WAY too seriously. hahaha

March 17, 2005
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My pleasure dear girl :o)

March 17, 2005
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Remember that most of the time when married guys cheat the "other woman" knows he is married. That makes two cheaters, one of whom is a woman.

March 17, 2005
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That's my POINT wd. jeez. What is it with this site, man?

I won't refer to the previous post, but I will say - I found out, and I told him to get the hell out. I don't understand women who say they can't get out of an affair. You find out he is involved, you stop the involvement. What is the complication?

March 17, 2005
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Welp, i'm a man and i've never cheated, guess that puts me in the .5% range, eh?

March 17, 2005
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Hats off to you suckernomore!!

WD - I have been hit on by many married guys, but have never dated any of them. I have 2 friends that have, though (1 is currently and the other has previously). They both claim that they love the stimulating conversation (don't all women .. lol!). And these guys usually smooze them with romance & gifts. The married guys claim that they are just not happy in their marriage, and of course, their wife is either "too nice" (go figure?)or "the meany".

My first question always is: I wonder if they try to talk to their wives like they talk to you. Or romance and buy them nice gifts, like they buy you? My next is, did you ask if he/they have tried counseling? (Of course, my friends have not because they really are not concerned about the guys relationship with his wife ... cuz they want these guys for themselves!) Mind you, both friends are nice people, but both are also very lonely and looking for someone to fill that emptiness.

Please know that I'm not judging these married guys - some are simply cheaters getting their own needs met and using women to do so (I have to admit I do frown on this type, sorry), but I believe others are really struggling with not knowing how to bring "the love" back into their marriage ... and being the distraction for them by dating them is certainly not the way to do it! My suggestion with this type is to direct them to close friends or a counselor, not my bedroom!

March 17, 2005
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CiCi:

Wow, what a thread.

I agree about women that keep having affairs w/ married men, and visa versa.

Of those I've known, once a cheater, always a cheater, never seen a reformed one yet.

I've never cheated so don't know what I'm missing out on. Never wanted to. Just a one man woman I guess.

This hubby is in the .5% also. Never doubted him.

But, I do know the feelings of one cheated on since the first hubby was such a a**hole. I kinda chuckled when you said he told her he fell asleep in the car. That's what I used to get told to. You'd think they'd come up w/ something more original. Think there is a book of one liners to tell your mate when you forgot to go home?

PS. Sorry to see you goin.

March 17, 2005
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thanks mama, love ya

March 17, 2005
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Cici, does not matter how long you have being in this site, I haven’t seeing nobody as offensive as you were.
It is ok to be frustrated, with other’s opinions (if that was the case), but do not post, if you are going to say offensive things to others, if you do not want to hear what others have to say…
(nobody have to take your Anger, we are not here for that)

March 17, 2005
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Cici, remember we are here b/c we all have the codependent thing in common, or have had it at one point. I am Christian and as such I have no right to judge you, but to tell you that when one reaches maturity, one appreciates being reprimanded by those who are wiser, and even by those who may not be, b/c that should be a chance where we can step back and consider other possibilities, and maybe there may be room for growth. None of us are here b/c we are perfect, but my God we are sure as heck trying to overcome all trials and encourage one another to become whole and stay that way. I hope you continue to grow, and thanks for the past advice you have sent my way.

March 17, 2005
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We are all fired up here today huh !

Ok my opinion, most of the men I know are cheaters. I think most men have always been cheaters, what's changed now is that women are very easy these days. Way back when, women did not "give it up" as easy as they do now, men had far less choices of women to cheat with.

Men have always been pigs and this will never change..UNLESS you get a man that has been cheated on and has been detroyed by it, chances are he will not cheat.

Once a cheater always a cheater is an untrue statement.
I cheated on my ex of 11 yrs and when he turned around and did it to me and then when my recent ex of 2 yrs did it to me, it detroyed me to no end.
I got a taste of my own medicne and I can say with 100% certainty, I will NEVER cheat on anyone every again !
I was naive and immature when I cheated....some of us grow up.

March 17, 2005
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Men have always been pigs and this will never change..UNLESS you get a man that has been cheated on and has been detroyed by it, chances are he will not cheat.

How can you say this? How can you say that men have always been pigs? I am really at a loss here and would really appreciate you enlightening me?

March 17, 2005
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Take Heart...not sure if you are male or female....
Men from thousands of years ago had more than one wife, men created Playboy, men created porn. Men rape, pedophiles are mostly men.
Men created strip clubs..shall I go on?
Men are pigs in that most will have sex with any hot women that gives them the time of day.
Well my Dad is not a pig...but he's my dad..hehehe

March 17, 2005
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Oh good another gender war.

Cici, you did the right thing.

Peacesoul,

As you have pointed out, women even from this site who claim that men are essentially cheaters have cheated themselves. And for the most part, if it weren't for female cheaters there would be no male cheaters.

I think it is rare for a married man to be able to trick a woman into an LTR without her knowing he is married.

I do agree with you that a satisfying sex life seems to be more important for men than it is for women.

As far as men inventing Playboy, porn and strip clubs...you say that as if it were a bad thing.

I don't think men invented Playgirl magazine, and I am darn sure that men did not invent the magazine "On Our Backs," the magazine by and for women. And if you look at the internet dating sites like mate1, you will see that the overwhelming majority of nude photos of women are posted by women looking for women.

I suppose the question we are trying to get at here is "What percentage of husbands cheat on their wives versus what percentage of wives cheat on their husbands?"

But again I point out that with the exception of one night stands facilitated by deception, cheating almost always involves a man AND a woman.

And we still have the issue of cheating by lesbians....

March 18, 2005
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It takes Two to Tango.
As far as we men "inventing" porn, et al. I guess there's a bit of truth there, but i have a question, if there weren't likeminded women, i.e the other half of the human race, than how would ol'Heff have ever gotten his first mag published?
Sexuality, and any perversion thereof, just as cheating, lying, stealing, or any other Sin or Character Defect, or Negative Attribute, whatever you choose to call it, is a part of the HUMAN condition. I dated a married woman who was separated and i thought she was going to leave her husband, but she didn't. She INITIATED the relationship with me, so my perspective, if i were to be black and white about it is "Women are all cheaters. HAH" . But i realize we live in a world of gray, and men and women make up the human race, neither gender is "more evil" than the other, nor is neither gender "more enlightened" than the other. Of course, when i'm dating i NEVER say the latter, i learned a long time ago the famous words "Your right dear".

March 18, 2005
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I think all men cheat. The only ones that say they don't,... don't because the never have the opportunity (ugly ducklings)you know what I mean...

March 18, 2005
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I do not agree with that. I don't think all men cheat, I don't believe all women cheat. I think that people cheat, and people don't cheat.

Making a blanket statement that all men cheat, is way off base. One because it just isn't true.

I know my father has never cheated on my mother. I know that my sister's husband has never cheated, I know of friends husbands that would never cheat.

It is easy to say that women cheat because of men, men cheat because of women, I really think people cheat because of themselves.

March 18, 2005
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ShouldaaCouldaaWouldaa

Shame on you honey to insinuate the only guys that cheat are not ugly ducklings. Has nothing to do w/ ugly ducklings coz there are gals out there that will do anything that walks; visa versa. And we are all beautiful people; uniquely made.

I have a very good lookin sexy man who is a member of the .5% non-cheater's club. The key is finding a man that has good morals and beliefs and truly loves you.

March 18, 2005
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I don't cheat. Never have, never will. Had it done to me though. Some people do cheat, be it male or female. It's not specific to the male race, believe me!

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